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#8504 - 10 May 06 11:29 giving a birth for bule's baby
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Ela : Babe, its been few months we've been together and iam not using any contraception and what about if i get pregnant?
Babe : i want you to giving a birth the baby and i will take the baby because i want to have that baby.
Ela : No. That's my baby too. i don't want you take my baby just for you. we take care the baby together.
Babe : iam just having 2 years contract working here so i will take the baby with me.


What do you think guys about that story? is that fair enough? and what should Ela do?
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#8505 - 10 May 06 11:37 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Originally posted by Ela_K:
Ela : Babe, its been few months we've been together and iam not using any contraception and what about if i get pregnant?
Babe : i want you to giving a birth the baby and i will take the baby because i want to have that baby.
Ela : No. That's my baby too. i don't want you take my baby just for you. we take care the baby together.
Babe : iam just having 2 years contract working here so i will take the baby with me.


What do you think guys about that story? is that fair enough? and what should Ela do?
ever hear of a guy called solomon? he had a sword.
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#8506 - 10 May 06 11:43 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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There is nothing you could do. The baby will be registered under the father's nationality, and then when he leaves, the Indo government will back him not you. Stop sleeping with Bules and use contraception! That's about all you can do.
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#8507 - 10 May 06 11:45 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Magpie i like to have sex without contraception. flesh to flesh is the best!
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#8508 - 10 May 06 11:47 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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KUKU, no, i never heard the guy called Solomon. and i think all the guy they have their own sword laugh
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#8509 - 10 May 06 11:49 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Originally posted by KuKuKaChu:
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Originally posted by Ela_K:
Ela : Babe, its been few months we've been together and iam not using any contraception and what about if i get pregnant?
Babe : i want you to giving a birth the baby and i will take the baby because i want to have that baby.
Ela : No. That's my baby too. i don't want you take my baby just for you. we take care the baby together.
Babe : iam just having 2 years contract working here so i will take the baby with me.


What do you think guys about that story? is that fair enough? and what should Ela do?
ever hear of a guy called solomon? he had a sword.
Before you do any of the above though, avoid Bule ESL teacher's like the plague, I hear that they only want to be in indonesia to sleep with Indonesia girls, and dont care about teaching, anyway to piss off the indonesians....whoops....I am one!! Ela, you have just had a bad run of luck, but seriously, not may teachers are going to stay in Indonesia for a long time, it's part of their getting outside of their own country. A lot of them will move on to Korea or China or Japan after they have done the obiligatory 1 year in Indonesia. Indonesia is the stepping stone for ESL teachers, who have never taught before, and are eventually looking to make big bucks.....Practise on Indonesians, so by the time they get to Japan, they are very good teachers, and very good at foreign girls into bed
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#8510 - 10 May 06 11:51 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Magpie i like to have sex without contraception. flesh to flesh is the best!
I know dear, we all do, but sometimes is just better to slip a cover on, and not have to deal with, relationships forced, not nurtured, STD's, pregnancy out of marriage, aids, and the rest of the crap that goes with sex.
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#8511 - 10 May 06 11:57 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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KUKU, no, i never heard the guy called Solomon. and i think all the guy they have their own sword laugh
in the islamic tradition, solomon is called sulaiman. he likes to chop babies in half. bagi2 dong!
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#8512 - 10 May 06 11:58 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Yes Ela, the baby will follow the nationality of his bule's father at least until your child on 18 yearls old then she/he could decide what she/he want for his/her nationality but if you're married with your bule, then you make a statement follow your husband nationality then you'll lose Indonesian nationality and this effect within a year of you (as a Indo women) marriage. wink
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#8513 - 10 May 06 11:59 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Hey Magpie, nice comments!
but why do you think my babe is a teacher? iam just giving you guys the story.....that's all.
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#8514 - 10 May 06 12:04 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Just you said 2 year contract. I kinda assumed it was a teacher, but I could be wrong. Anyway, now you know about teachers!! By the way, If you are still going out with that guy, at least you know that he is NOT serious about spending his life with you, even if you do get pregnant. If the conversation is true, then your man is a bit of pillock. Personally if I have babies, I want as many women, including wife, mother sister.... to be there. The good thing about indo girls is that they want to be mothers, and I want to work. We all happy (no babies for me for a while though!!!)
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#8515 - 10 May 06 12:08 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Originally posted by Magpie:
The good thing about indo girls is that they want to be mothers, and I want to work. We all happy (no babies for me for a while though!!!)
ok, here's betting you will have a baby within a year of marriage. unfortunately for you, indonesians seem to think that getting married also means having a baby as soon as possible; it's part of the marriage contract.
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#8516 - 10 May 06 12:10 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Oh i see..... Thank's Magpie for that info. it's good and nice. i didn't know that expat as a teacher in Indonesia like that... actually i don't know about teachers contract for teaching in Indonesia. hmmm... so now i know... :-)
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#8517 - 10 May 06 12:10 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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What's wrong with having a baby or not ?
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#8518 - 10 May 06 12:14 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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MT, this is about having baby from bule... so i want to know... because if i get pregnant with bule i want to have the baby...!
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#8519 - 10 May 06 12:16 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Originally posted by KuKuKaChu:
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Originally posted by Magpie:
The good thing about indo girls is that they want to be mothers, and I want to work. We all happy (no babies for me for a while though!!!)
ok, here's betting you will have a baby within a year of marriage. unfortunately for you, indonesians seem to think that getting married also means having a baby as soon as possible; it's part of the marriage contract.
You will lose the bet Kuku, I have been married for 9 months, I dont get back for another 2.5 months, which leaves me with .5 months to get the wife pregnant, go through 9 months of labour, and then delivery. But that was just me being obstreperous. Yes I know all about the "I wanna baby". But the thing is, my wife has lived in New Zealand for years, we met in NZ, and she values me a lot higher than satisfiying her cultural pressure to have kids. I said, we have kids when WE are financially stable, and it wont split us up. She said, you wanna practise lots before we have them. So very pleased that I dont have to deal with half of the stuff, that is suggested here. My wife trusts me, she knows she will get all she wants, but she has to do it my way. (I know how lucky I am already)
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#8520 - 10 May 06 12:25 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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you are lucky Magpie...
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#8521 - 10 May 06 12:36 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Originally posted by Ela_K:
MT, this is about having baby from bule... so i want to know... because if i get pregnant with bule i want to have the baby...!
oh so you also want to "memperbaiki keturunan"? smile some bules have not yet figured out that many indonesian women really, really want a bule (indo) baby. once they get one, they may well ditch hubby!
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#8522 - 10 May 06 12:47 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Sorry Ela, I rather have bad mood today so agak gak nyambung hehehe.
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#8523 - 10 May 06 12:53 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Sorry Ela, I rather have bad mood today so agak gak nyambung hehehe.
No bad moods allowed Kitty features, we have talked about this!! tee hee!~ wink

Big hugs for you sweetness.
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#8524 - 10 May 06 13:42 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Originally posted by Macan Tutul:
What's wrong with having a baby or not ?
I don't wanna have a baby so I took the pills smile
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#8525 - 10 May 06 14:12 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Ohhh..I'm so sorry to hear thta Ela..
how come, you got pregnant..he never gave you tissue KB..as protector.. wink
but Ella don't worry, tenang..tenang..tarik nafas pelan-pelan..
hmmm....apa yaconfused
well, kasih aja tuh anak ke si bule, terus minta bantuan sama si Kuku wink
love you Ela..
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#8526 - 10 May 06 14:23 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Eh anak bule is more expensive in the market, high demand, could be celebrity in Indo wink
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#8527 - 10 May 06 14:42 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Originally posted by KuKuKaChu:
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Originally posted by Ela_K:
MT, this is about having baby from bule... so i want to know... because if i get pregnant with bule i want to have the baby...!
oh so you also want to "memperbaiki keturunan"? smile some bules have not yet figured out that many indonesian women really, really want a bule (indo) baby. once they get one, they may well ditch hubby!
Hey KUKU, is not ME yang mau memperbaiki keturunan by marrying a bule. but bule the bule who wants to have a baby from me yang mau memperbaiki keturunan :p because aku coklat manis gitu....!
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#8528 - 10 May 06 14:47 Re: giving a birth for bule's baby
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Originally posted by rubyenda:
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Originally posted by Macan Tutul:
What's wrong with having a baby or not ?
I don't wanna have a baby so I took the pills smile
Ruby... so you kill your baby with pills smile
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