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#50285 - 26 Apr 07 08:49 Friendship
Indon asli Offline
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Friendship.... it makes your life more meaningful.
But sometimes, it's just .... confusing!

Is having more friends is good thing or a bad thing?
I mean, you sometimes meet the new, and forget the old... it's like an old toy.. once you got it, you would play with it everyday...But once you get a new one, you tend to forget about your previous toys!
If your friends are faithful and are always there for you, are you willing to do the same?
Friendship is not a good thing to mess with. It's easily broken. A small argue or misunderstanding can destroy everything you have with your friends.
So you think that having more friends is a good think?

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#50286 - 26 Apr 07 08:50 Re: Friendship [Re: Indon asli]
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As long as they dont expect me to buy all their beer for them!
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#50287 - 26 Apr 07 09:04 Re: Friendship [Re: Dilli]
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A very wise man told me to "count your friends on your thumbs" ....

Big difference between friends and mates in my opinion
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#50294 - 26 Apr 07 09:52 Re: Friendship [Re: chewwyUK]
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Normal human beings interact with others in daily basis. This is something that is part of life. The result of the interaction can be the continuation of the relationship in a deeper stage, or it can just stop there. Friends are easy to find during good times. But true friends, who are there during the lowest point of your lives are rare. And these are the people you have to treasure and value forever.

So back to your questions, is having more friends a good thing? I think the answer is yes. Its difficult to judge sincerity of the friendship anybody offers at the early stage, but as everything in life, it's always worth trying and experiencing.YOu might get hurt along the way, but hey, that's life. But keep in mind that you might get lucky and find your true friends at the same time.
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#50296 - 26 Apr 07 10:03 Re: Friendship [Re: Shesca]
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Although a little off topic here it reminds me of a regular argument I find myself having with people who are not from London. From an outsiders point of view London people are not friendly are generally have a reputation of being uninterested and rude at the best of times.

On the surface this is very true ... On a day to day basis you can walk around Australia and get a lot of smiles and bullshit small talk. Seems like a friendly place, but try moving beyond the shallow acquaintance stage and you find Australians are much more selfish than you would imagine.

This is the reverse effect of living in London where you will find that you may not enjoy the everyday shallow pleasantries but you will find that when you make a friend the bond very strong and probably one you will keep for your life.

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#50298 - 26 Apr 07 10:40 Re: Friendship [Re: chewwyUK]
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australians have this image of themselves as being a friendly and open people. in fact, past the polite pleasantries, they are in fact cold and wary, and very difficult to befriend.

and australian women especially.
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#50299 - 26 Apr 07 10:46 Re: Friendship [Re: Indon asli]
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Quoting: Indon asli
Friendship.... it makes your life more meaningful.
But sometimes, it's just .... confusing!

Is having more friends is good thing or a bad thing?
I mean, you sometimes meet the new, and forget the old... it's like an old toy.. once you got it, you would play with it everyday...But once you get a new one, you tend to forget about your previous toys!
If your friends are faithful and are always there for you, are you willing to do the same?
Friendship is not a good thing to mess with. It's easily broken. A small argue or misunderstanding can destroy everything you have with your friends.
So you think that having more friends is a good think?


Good Topic Indon Asli!

This is good for KUKU. KU..., makanya kalau ada orang baru jangan lupa dong sama orang lama. Tanpa orang lama kan JakChat nggak bisa TOP seperti sekarang hik... hik... hik.... Merdeka!!!
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#50301 - 26 Apr 07 10:50 Re: Friendship [Re: KuKuKaChu]
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Ahh -- Australian women .... Generally rude, act like the men hate interacting with anybody they don't know. That is until they have enough Alcohol and Cocaine poured down them and then they are anybodies!

2 of the Worst pick up lines experienced in Australia ....

1. In the town of Mudgee a girl approaches the table with an unlit cigarette and says "If ya give me a light I will let you fuck me"

2. Standing at a kebab van in oxford street a girl taps me on the shoulder and says "buy me a kebab and you can take me home and fuck me"

Delightful women the Australians

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#50302 - 26 Apr 07 10:57 Re: Friendship [Re: jok]
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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Quoting: Ela_K3000
Good Topic Indon Asli!

This is good for KUKU. KU..., makanya kalau ada orang baru jangan lupa dong sama orang lama. Tanpa orang lama kan JakChat nggak bisa TOP seperti sekarang hik... hik... hik.... Merdeka!!!

you are so right, miss ela! i'm just so sorry i didn't obey you! it won't happen again, promise! smile

Merdeka!!!
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#50310 - 26 Apr 07 11:23 Re: Friendship [Re: KuKuKaChu]
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Kuku you are such an.....






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#50312 - 26 Apr 07 11:27 Re: Friendship [Re: Dilli]
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Quoting: Dilli
Kuku you are such an.....







that's what webadmins do ... putting salve on sensitive egos smile
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#50313 - 26 Apr 07 11:28 Re: Friendship [Re: KuKuKaChu]
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MERDEKA JUGA :YAY:
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#50318 - 26 Apr 07 11:42 Re: Friendship [Re: Lulu]
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LULU...., Nice avatar! Sweet and Sexy!!
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#50320 - 26 Apr 07 11:46 Re: Friendship [Re: jok]
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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the strawberry symbolises her perpetual PMS.
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#50326 - 26 Apr 07 11:57 Re: Friendship [Re: Dilli]
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Quoting: Dilli
As long as they dont expect me to buy all their beer for them!


ooops
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#50328 - 26 Apr 07 12:06 Re: Friendship [Re: Orang Kanada]
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You're OK - OK, it was not directed at you...
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#50351 - 26 Apr 07 13:44 Re: Friendship [Re: Dilli]
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These replies remind me of the old JakChat i know laugh
I love you guys smile
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#50352 - 26 Apr 07 13:59 Re: Friendship [Re: Dilli]
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Quoting: Dilli
You're OK - OK, it was not directed at you...


fieeeew... when is the next one?
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