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#46706 - 04 Mar 07 06:05 Killing me softly
rikka Offline
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Registered: 04 Mar 07
Posts: 3
Loc: jakarta, indonesia
Actually i need advice.

I been having relationship with a guy i meet accidentally on net. its been 3,5 years. A pakistani working in NZ.
He visit me evry once per 2-3 months, and he used to stay 1-2 week evrytime.
We have a same education subject and basically we clicked so much.
I was taught that girls need to get marry before 30's. im now 27.
So i asked him to marry me. His reason was cliche, that his situation is weird, he is not yet NZ citizen and been work there 3 years.
Do i have to listen to his song, or do i have to get out of the bar?.

Thanks
Limbo

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#46709 - 04 Mar 07 06:21 Re: Killing me softly [Re: rikka]
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Registered: 16 Aug 06
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Loc: here
Oh my word - you don't know what a lucky escape you have had .
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#46717 - 04 Mar 07 12:47 Re: Killing me softly [Re: Capt. Mainwaring]
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Registered: 20 Jan 07
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My advice ??

I think better for you to get out of the bar dear. I am not racial but I don't think it is a good idea to have relationship with pakistani.
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#46719 - 04 Mar 07 14:10 Re: Killing me softly [Re: TeDdYBeAr]
travel2happiness Offline
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I dont think its a good idea for long distance relationships with people you have just met. If you have already been in a relationship with a person, and all the elements of trust and the other qualities are established, it is possible to work. But building these as you learn about one another is very hard to do.

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#46731 - 05 Mar 07 01:37 Re: Killing me softly [Re: travel2happiness]
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you were wasting your time... Why the hell you want to marry someone you don't really know? even he marry you, you will ended up facing lot of trouble.. And marriage is not a great decission at your age. 27? so what?
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#46732 - 05 Mar 07 02:30 Re: Killing me softly [Re: TeDdYBeAr]
juminten Offline
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Registered: 08 Dec 05
Posts: 3870
Loc: disana-disini
Quoting: TeDdYBeAr
My advice ??

I think better for you to get out of the bar dear. I am not racial but I don't think it is a good idea to have relationship with pakistani.

i thought so, dating pakistani dudes is really-relly bad idea! look at those pakistani taxi drivers here in LA and NY..they cut off bikers, speeding and running on the red lights like drunken noodles! laugh
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#46733 - 05 Mar 07 03:02 Re: Killing me softly [Re: juminten]
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I always thought drunken noodles is yummy... wink

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#46735 - 05 Mar 07 05:52 Re: Killing me softly [Re: rikka]
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Registered: 07 Jan 07
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Loc: auckland, nz
MMM my opinions for you just listen and follow your heart. Your adult now, you know what the best and what the worse for you smile Anyway good luck what ever you choose! wink Cheers.
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#46737 - 05 Mar 07 06:10 Re: Killing me softly [Re: dolphin]
Orang Kanada Offline
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Posts: 621
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Here's something that can help you making up your mind about having a pakistani husband:



Man 'sold wife's kidney to buy tractor'
By Massoud Ansari in Karachi, Sunday Telegraph
Last Updated: 12:48am GMT 04/03/2007



A farmer persuaded doctors to remove one of his wife's kidneys so that he could sell it for money to buy a tractor, she has told police.

Safia Thaheem Bibi discovered the organ was missing only when she sought treatment for an unrelated complaint.

She told Pakistani police that she confronted her husband who confessed he had used the 70,000 rupees (about 600) he got for the kidney to buy a second-hand tractor for his rice fields.

(...)

Complete story here: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2007/03/04/wpak04.xml
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#46738 - 05 Mar 07 06:52 Re: Killing me softly [Re: rikka]
bonita Offline
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Registered: 15 Sep 06
Posts: 364
Loc: at my desk
Quoting: rikka
Actually i need advice.

I been having relationship with a guy i meet accidentally on net. its been 3,5 years. A pakistani working in NZ.
He visit me evry once per 2-3 months, and he used to stay 1-2 week evrytime.
We have a same education subject and basically we clicked so much.
I was taught that girls need to get marry before 30's. im now 27.
So i asked him to marry me. His reason was cliche, that his situation is weird, he is not yet NZ citizen and been work there 3 years.
Do i have to listen to his song, or do i have to get out of the bar?.

Thanks
Limbo


Rikka,

How old is he? Perhaps he's the type of guy who really want to get settled first before getting married. If you think you can't wait until the proposal comes, then find someone else.

Err, guys, do you think all Pakistani bad? I don't think so frown

happy weekend.
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#46739 - 05 Mar 07 07:47 Re: Killing me softly [Re: Orang Kanada]
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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Registered: 09 Oct 05
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Quoting: Orang Kanada
Here's something that can help you making up your mind about having a pakistani husband:

Man 'sold wife's kidney to buy tractor'
By Massoud Ansari in Karachi, Sunday Telegraph
Last Updated: 12:48am GMT 04/03/2007

you make it sound like he did something wrong. i thought everyone did this?

though buying a tractor does seem a bit stupid and frivolous.

you know that dopod HP i bought??
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#46740 - 05 Mar 07 09:08 Re: Killing me softly [Re: rikka]
Jokie Jokie Girl Offline
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Registered: 07 Nov 05
Posts: 2552
Loc: Central Jakarta
Quoting: rikka
Actually i need advice.

I been having relationship with a guy i meet accidentally on net. its been 3,5 years. A pakistani working in NZ.
He visit me evry once per 2-3 months, and he used to stay 1-2 week evrytime.
We have a same education subject and basically we clicked so much.
I was taught that girls need to get marry before 30's. im now 27.
So i asked him to marry me. His reason was cliche, that his situation is weird, he is not yet NZ citizen and been work there 3 years.
Do i have to listen to his song, or do i have to get out of the bar?.

Thanks
Limbo


hello rikka, welcome to JC the one and only smile

I told you, dont ever west your time for nothing..you better do what you must do...and get out from there..whover he is..Pakistani, Australian, Canadian, British. French or whoever...

I was taught that girls need to get marry before 30's. im now 27

I don't think so, rikka smile alots of women doing that, marry 30's up... wink
just let it go and don't ever think too much about marry just because you're worried with your age.. :)not only you that as a single in the world..try to be positive and keep thinking that "you're happy as a single" kiss

cheerrss
jokie
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#46741 - 05 Mar 07 09:12 Re: Killing me softly [Re: Jokie Jokie Girl]
Jokie Jokie Girl Offline
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Registered: 07 Nov 05
Posts: 2552
Loc: Central Jakarta
not all of Pakistani are bad wink
just like Ina people, or any citizen..some are bad and some are good..whatever smile
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#46753 - 05 Mar 07 22:14 Re: Killing me softly [Re: Jokie Jokie Girl]
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Registered: 07 Jan 07
Posts: 337
Loc: auckland, nz
lol JJG wink
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#46754 - 05 Mar 07 22:37 Re: Killing me softly [Re: dolphin]
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Jokie is RIGHT!
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#46759 - 05 Mar 07 22:59 Re: Killing me softly [Re: KuKuKaChu]
doremi Offline
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Registered: 17 Jan 07
Posts: 488
Loc: slouch couch
Quoting: KuKuKaChu
Quoting: Orang Kanada
Here's something that can help you making up your mind about having a pakistani husband:

Man 'sold wife's kidney to buy tractor'
By Massoud Ansari in Karachi, Sunday Telegraph
Last Updated: 12:48am GMT 04/03/2007

you make it sound like he did something wrong. i thought everyone did this?


though buying a tractor does seem a bit stupid and frivolous.

you know that dopod HP i bought??


Which wife is it KK? Dopod doesn't come cheap... laugh

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#46764 - 06 Mar 07 00:30 Re: Killing me softly [Re: Jokie Jokie Girl]
juminten Offline
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Registered: 08 Dec 05
Posts: 3870
Loc: disana-disini
Quoting: Jokie Jokie Girl
not all of Pakistani are bad wink
smile

yea..but they are very hairy!
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#46779 - 06 Mar 07 03:05 Re: Killing me softly [Re: juminten]
Dilli Offline
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And they are known for their violent tendencies!


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#46802 - 06 Mar 07 04:35 Re: Killing me softly [Re: Dilli]
juminten Offline
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Registered: 08 Dec 05
Posts: 3870
Loc: disana-disini
damn! that's really a hard spanked!.....kinda different with my dude's spank. he does it in gentle alluring kinda way..*yum*

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#46816 - 06 Mar 07 08:22 Re: Killing me softly [Re: juminten]
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Loc: auckland, nz
Hairy ?! mmm i think all men, if they not have shave, they are become hairy also. kkkkkkkk :P
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#46822 - 06 Mar 07 11:07 Re: Killing me softly [Re: juminten]
bonita Offline
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Registered: 15 Sep 06
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Loc: at my desk
Quoting: wallet digga'
Quoting: Jokie Jokie Girl
not all of Pakistani are bad wink
smile

yea..but they are very hairy!


how did you know? grin

but...but... at least he was NOT hairy smile
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#47178 - 10 Mar 07 06:33 Re: Killing me softly [Re: Jokie Jokie Girl]
rikka Offline
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Registered: 04 Mar 07
Posts: 3
Loc: jakarta, indonesia
Thankyou guys,

i really appreciate all the above advices.

Anyway a hp service guy helps me incidentally, by missed my GSM hp for service, thatway i lost contact with now-my-ex for 2 months it makes me think.

Was hard to get out of the bar and stop listening his song, as he sms me like if he owned me, 5 times aday and calls me once per 2 days.

The hp service man might think he's suck, but no, he s a bless.

Rikka

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#47179 - 10 Mar 07 06:35 Re: Killing me softly [Re: rikka]
rikka Offline
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Registered: 04 Mar 07
Posts: 3
Loc: jakarta, indonesia
Thankyou guys,

i really appreciate all the above advices.

Anyway a hp service guy helps me incidentally, by missed my GSM hp for service, thatway i lost contact with now-my-ex for 2 months it makes me think.

Was hard to get out of the bar and stop listening his song, as he sms me like if he owned me, 5 times aday and calls me once per 2 days.

The hp service man might think he's suck, but no, he s a bless.

Rikka

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#47202 - 10 Mar 07 16:25 Re: Killing me softly [Re: rikka]
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Registered: 07 Nov 05
Posts: 5
Loc: Jakarta
kacian de loe RikKa....

zelebica_papillon

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#47216 - 10 Mar 07 23:49 Re: Killing me softly [Re: zelebica_papillon]
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Registered: 17 Jan 07
Posts: 488
Loc: slouch couch
Quoting: zelebica_papillon
kacian de loe RikKa....

zelebica_papillon


Your avatar looks familiar?

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