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#40169 - 09 Jan 07 04:28 Are Married women fair game??
Polar Bear Offline
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Seven years ago I used to work with a very cute but married woman. G was a tall Chinese girl, married with a son. I kept in contact with her for many years, and we sometimes had lunch. We used to joke about having an affair.

She doesn’t love her husband, but stays with him because of her son.

Today she sent me an email, suggesting we “resume our relationship”. I think she means she wants sex.

I have a strict rule about married girls. I never date them.

Should I break it this one time? What do you girls think?

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#40170 - 09 Jan 07 04:47 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Polar Bear]
Jokie Jokie Girl Offline
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don't ever do that PB, say no to affair with a marry women..it's not good enough for you..but it's ok for me if Im making an affair with a marry men laugh
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#40171 - 09 Jan 07 04:55 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Jokie Jokie Girl]
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Quoting: Jokie Jokie Girl
don't ever do that PB, say no to affair with a marry women..it's not good enough for you..but it's ok for me if Im making an affair with a marry men laugh



So when I marry MT, we can still have affair?????

(Who wil MT kill first, me or you?)

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#40188 - 09 Jan 07 08:16 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Polar Bear]
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pb
perhaps u need to go to pscycolog, if asking to doctor jokie that's the asnwer smile

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#40192 - 09 Jan 07 10:02 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Magda]
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You're all adults! You really don't need our opinions, do you PeeBee? It's all up to you and the lady.

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#40193 - 09 Jan 07 10:13 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Just]
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Well - the way some people judge me and bitch about me, I though I would get some input.....

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#40194 - 09 Jan 07 10:15 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Polar Bear]
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I don't judge! I just gossip people! LOL

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#40196 - 09 Jan 07 10:20 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Just]
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pls don't polar bear. think first, how about your position to be her husband. from the begin maybe you have fun, but at the end i'm sure it not work it. if she doesn't love her husband anymore why she not get divorce. its just make her life so complicated. but anyways is up to you lah!
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#40198 - 09 Jan 07 10:27 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: dolphin]
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Dolphin, that is why I never did before. And to be honest, I dont think I ever will.

Once when I was a young student I had affair with older married woman. caused me lot of trouble.

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#40200 - 09 Jan 07 10:44 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Polar Bear]
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ok then polar bear good on you!
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#40228 - 09 Jan 07 22:17 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: dolphin]
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i try to lve by the notion that what goes around, really goes around
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#40232 - 09 Jan 07 22:26 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Yes]
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Quoting: julian
i try to lve by the notion that what goes around, really goes around



Exactly....

To be honest I don’t give a shit about the husband, he doesn’t make an effort to keep the marriage happy. But she has a nice son, and he deserves to have a stable family upbringing. I see no point in risking his happiness just for a quick fuck.

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#40280 - 10 Jan 07 03:23 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Polar Bear]
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hey man is just sex. if u are not fucking her somebody else will
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#40283 - 10 Jan 07 03:52 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: KIM]
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Kim you have finally said something i agree with
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#40285 - 10 Jan 07 04:12 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: KIM]
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Quoting: KIM
hey man is just sex. if u are not fucking her somebody else will


I like your style.......

OK - I will meet her for lunch.

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#40286 - 10 Jan 07 04:23 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Polar Bear]
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Quoting: Polar Bear
Dolphin, that is why I never did before. And to be honest, I dont think I ever will.

Once when I was a young student I had affair with older married woman. caused me lot of trouble.


That should be explain about our marriage swear
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#40310 - 10 Jan 07 10:23 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Macan Tutul]
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for some indo people, if a men making an affair with a marry women, sound weird! if a women (single-ed) making an affair with a marry men..it's well

if a marry a women making an affair with a guy (single-ed)it's an embarrassing, the people will judge the women as a bitch or anything like that..
if a marry men making an affair with a girl..commonly with the young gals..it's not an embarrassing then the people will say "it's normal for a men kuku

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#40414 - 11 Jan 07 14:15 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: Jokie Jokie Girl]
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It sounds like being a man in Indo (married or single) has many advantages.

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#40425 - 11 Jan 07 22:02 Re: Are Married women fair game?? [Re: buzzman]
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Quoting: buzzman
It sounds like being a man in Indo (married or single) has many advantages.


Sadly Buzzman, not if you are a bule.

A recently released study by world experts (Choco Sheca et al) concluded that the chance of any bule getting a flicker of interest out of a girl in Jakarta roughly equated to that of the proverbial snowball in hell.

The study has shocked the nation, and was one of the factors in the recent JSX meltdown.

Several less qualified observers have questioned the data used in the study, pointing out that just about every female member of the well known web site JakChat had dated at least one bule.

The researchers have retorted that this was purely a statistical anomaly and their research (based upon interviews in the ladies toilets of the Abdul Bungarse Mosque) showed that although bule expats were frequently hospitalised due to excessive shagging, this was obviously the result of masturbation, and not sexual encounters with local girls.

Their final comment was – “one blow job doesn’t mean shit”.

The researchers are now working on studies to prove that Jakarta has the cleanest air in the world, and that there were no traffic problems. They are also believe to be expert witnesses in the recent Adam Air disaster, where they will argue that this well maintained plane was hidden by goblins.



Ahhh good old Jakarta bullshit. It would make Pravda proud….. smile smile

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