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#34752 - 20 Oct 06 04:59 What is YOUR Priority
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So when it comes to picking the right opposite sex for a serious relationship, what will you go for, in order, from the most important:
Looks, Brain, Money, Caring personality, Position, Honesty and WHY?
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#34753 - 20 Oct 06 05:06 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Shesca]
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Shesca, those of all are important, I want them equal, can't list down... smile

Oh, u forget 'the size' wink
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#34755 - 20 Oct 06 05:11 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: D'ruby]
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Personally i feel that mental stability is something i look for in a long-term relationship. Unfortunately I am yet to find that quality in a woman
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#34756 - 20 Oct 06 05:11 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: D'ruby]
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honesty -- if you can't trust someone, what's the point?
brains -- more important than money, cause you can make money with brains
looks -- must be fully equipped
caring -- whatever
money -- helps, but not essential
position -- who gives a fuck?
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#34757 - 20 Oct 06 05:14 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: KuKuKaChu]
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the real question is does DG have any of the qualities women look for?
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#34758 - 20 Oct 06 05:15 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: chewwyUK]
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Who's DG?
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#34759 - 20 Oct 06 05:16 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Shesca]
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Dutch Guy
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#34760 - 20 Oct 06 05:16 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: KuKuKaChu]
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Honesty,. co's if they can't be honest then there is no relationship.
brains co's impossible to have a relationship with a Goblok
Caring is important so U can look after one another
Personality co's you don't want to live with a Grumpy old bag
Money got enough so don't need hers
Position in the house looking after the kids and household business
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#34761 - 20 Oct 06 05:17 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Shesca]
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Dolce Gabana smile
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#34763 - 20 Oct 06 05:25 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: D'ruby]
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Chewwy: DG is A GIRL?
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#34764 - 20 Oct 06 05:30 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Shesca]
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Ohhh...u should come to JakChat a lot....there's a loser called DG here
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#34765 - 20 Oct 06 05:30 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Shesca]
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Rubby: Lol
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#34766 - 20 Oct 06 05:37 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Shesca]
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Oh, I know DG. He's the reason why I visit this site LESS often. smile
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#34768 - 20 Oct 06 05:38 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Shesca]
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Quoting: Shesca
So when it comes to picking the right opposite sex for a serious relationship, what will you go for, in order, from the most important:
Looks, Brain, Money, Caring personality, Position, Honesty and WHY?


It's all about different phases in chronological order.
--Certainly the first for me is looks, that's what causes the initial attraction. (first meeting until first few weeks)

--Then if she has good brain and personality, it sucks me in deeper and I my interest grows.. (first few weeks/months)

---Honesty keeps me with her for as long as she'll have me. (long term)

-- Position and Money are not important, but nice bonuses if she has those.
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#34769 - 20 Oct 06 05:43 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: riccardo]
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Riccieeeeeeee....I agreeee yay
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#34772 - 20 Oct 06 06:05 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: KuKuKaChu]
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Quoting: KuKuKaChu
honesty -- if you can't trust someone, what's the point?
brains -- more important than money, cause you can make money with brains
looks -- must be fully equipped
caring -- whatever
money -- helps, but not essential
position -- who gives a fuck?


woohooy Kuku banget ini mah!!!
I love you Ku wink laugh
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#34776 - 20 Oct 06 06:14 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: KuKuKaChu]
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position -- if the girl prefers doggie style that's always a bonus
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#34779 - 20 Oct 06 06:34 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: riccardo]
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position -- if the girl prefers doggie style that's always a bonus


doggie style????what's look like????
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#34780 - 20 Oct 06 07:05 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Jokie Jokie Girl]
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Quoting: Jokie Jokie Girl
Quoting: riccardo
position -- if the girl prefers doggie style that's always a bonus


doggie style????what's look like????


I thought it was your favorite, Jokie...
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#34781 - 20 Oct 06 07:13 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Shesca]
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Quoting: Shesca
So when it comes to picking the right opposite sex for a serious relationship, what will you go for, in order, from the most important:
Looks, Brain, Money, Caring personality, Position, Honesty and WHY?


Honesty... what a question... it's the basic of long term relationship

Brain... I hate to repeat things she should understand right away

Position... professionaly or sexualy... ok, both

Caring personality... even if I can take care of myself

Looks... there's always a minimum requirement

Money... That's the least important thing in my life...
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#34782 - 20 Oct 06 07:29 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Orang Kanada]
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Quoting: Orang Kanada
Quoting: Jokie Jokie Girl
Quoting: riccardo
position -- if the girl prefers doggie style that's always a bonus


doggie style????what's look like????


I thought it was your favorite, Jokie...

sok te-u neh anak!!! emang-yeeee kite pernah dogie-dogie-an!!!!
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#34783 - 20 Oct 06 07:47 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Jokie Jokie Girl]
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Quoting: Jokie Jokie Girl
Quoting: Orang Kanada
Quoting: Jokie Jokie Girl
[quote=riccardo]position -- if the girl prefers doggie style that's always a bonus


doggie style????what's look like????


I thought it was your favorite, Jokie...

sok te-u neh anak!!! emang-yeeee kite pernah dogie-dogie-an!!!!
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Je comprend rien quand tu parles dans ta langue, Jokie...
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#34789 - 20 Oct 06 09:23 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Orang Kanada]
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Lots of great inputs there, guys.
Mine are the following:
Honesty: absolute requirement. Without it a relationship wont last. It hurts the most when you found out youve been lied at.
Caring personality: To make you feel special and beautiful at all time.
Brain: you definitely needs to connect for you to last. Otherwise it's like living and fighting alone
Looks: well, he cant be THAT ugly
Money: he better be able to afford himself at least
Position: Doggie, absolutely....
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#34809 - 21 Oct 06 00:01 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: Shesca]
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Quoting: Shesca
So when it comes to picking the right opposite sex for a serious relationship, what will you go for, in order, from the most important:
Looks, Brain, Money, Caring personality, Position, Honesty and WHY?


1)
Honesty - My first ex wife ripped me off
2)
Caring personality - I need this when I arrive home wrecked
3)
Brain - Usefull at times
4)
Looks - I dont like being seen with mingers
5)
Position - If all above are present there are at least 69 options on this one
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#34821 - 21 Oct 06 03:28 Re: What is YOUR Priority [Re: riccardo]
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Quoting: riccardo
Quoting: Shesca
So when it comes to picking the right opposite sex for a serious relationship, what will you go for, in order, from the most important:
Looks, Brain, Money, Caring personality, Position, Honesty and WHY?


It's all about different phases in chronological order.
--Certainly the first for me is looks, that's what causes the initial attraction. (first meeting until first few weeks)

--Then if she has good brain and personality, it sucks me in deeper and I my interest grows.. (first few weeks/months)

---Honesty keeps me with her for as long as she'll have me. (long term)

-- Position and Money are not important, but nice bonuses if she has those.


i think your spot on riccardo, every relationship starts with a single moment, and in that initial moment it always the looks for me, however, i would say that i find some of the girls intriguing on this forum and that purely stems from how they express themselves here
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