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#34216 - 13 Oct 06 06:51 Question from a new comer...
Orang Kanada Offline
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Hey guys, I'm a new comer in Indonesia. I'm here for 6 month and of course I started to notice the differences between Indo and my homeland. But I've been suprised lately by a comment from an Indo girl, and now I wanna ask all of you this question (that may be the first a serie):

Is men are allowed to cry? Or it's a women and childs business?
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#34217 - 13 Oct 06 06:54 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Orang Kanada]
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yes you can cry! as long as not all the time, its showing that you are a wimp!

btw. my fiance cried when i called the wedding off! frown
my current dude cried when i was in hospital, he thought i was going to die. my older brothers cried last time we spoke on the phone..that because i was really bitchy and cried to them..lol..
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#34219 - 13 Oct 06 06:55 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: juminten]
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Not all the time, of course...
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#34231 - 13 Oct 06 07:22 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Orang Kanada]
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yes of course-lah, you can cry as you wish smile

nahhhh, you're crying now mr. canadian wink wink wink
you have a beatiful eyes to cry laugh

but don't cry because of jokie ya wink

pour autant que tu saches je t'aimes encore.
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#34233 - 13 Oct 06 09:39 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Jokie Jokie Girl]
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Mr. Canoook, I know it's not gonna sound all PC and stuff, I'd definitely say it's not kosher for the guy to cry. If you're really upset, and you want to make that clear, you can maybe 'threaten' to cry. She won't wanna see that, so you say, 'you know I almost feel like crying'....
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#34235 - 13 Oct 06 10:01 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Orang Kanada]
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what make you crying mate?
love? sex? lust? or what?
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#34237 - 13 Oct 06 11:13 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: cherry]
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It's not about getting upset but hurt... it's human to cry, if I have to choose between being a "real man" or a human being (as imperfect it could be), I'll choose B. So what Rick? If you feel like crying, you keep it all inside or you wait to be alone?
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#34239 - 13 Oct 06 11:51 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Orang Kanada]
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You asked the question Kanada, I gave you my opinion of how some people may react or view it. I didn't say anything about being a "real man". Every emotion we display is a choice. If you choose to express an emotion in a certain culture where they may perceive it very differently from your own, then well...
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#34240 - 13 Oct 06 12:23 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: riccardo]
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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crying, or not, isn't really an issue for me. but crying over a woman? that seems to be a waste of energy. if a women even brings to close to wanting to cry, then it's time to get rid of her!
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#34244 - 13 Oct 06 21:03 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: KuKuKaChu]
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I'll turn the tears on if it gets me laid!
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#34245 - 13 Oct 06 22:08 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Dilli]
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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that's pathetic!! you should be ashamed of yourself! expoliting a girl's sensitivities....
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#34246 - 13 Oct 06 22:11 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: KuKuKaChu]
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Yeah...very very sad man..
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#34247 - 13 Oct 06 23:15 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Lulu]
Dilli Offline
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Stop it guys, I'm very near to tears here!
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#34248 - 13 Oct 06 23:41 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Dilli]
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push the button!
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#34249 - 13 Oct 06 23:55 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: D'ruby]
Dilli Offline
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What button?

This one?
Posted by Kuku

"actually, rather than a forum, why don't i just install a "i need a shag" button that only appears on the screens of female members. clicking on this button would automagically send all their personal contact details via SMS to your cell phone.

isn't technology wonderful? "


Edited by Dilligaf (13 Oct 06 23:57)
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#34250 - 13 Oct 06 23:59 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Dilli]
D'ruby Offline
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yep, can't u see the button? Only hot guys can see it wink

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#34251 - 14 Oct 06 00:50 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: D'ruby]
Dilli Offline
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I see many buttons, I'm worried about pressing any of them!
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#34254 - 14 Oct 06 01:04 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Dilli]
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unbutton me please...??
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#34255 - 14 Oct 06 01:16 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: juminten]
Dilli Offline
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I'll have to use my teeth as my hands will be busy elsewhere!
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#34258 - 14 Oct 06 01:35 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Dilli]
juminten Offline
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lol...i'd like to know where are the hands landing!
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#34259 - 14 Oct 06 01:39 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: juminten]
Dilli Offline
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I am sure you are wise enough to know that they would be uncrossing your legs,,,,,and, I can breathe through my ears!
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#34267 - 14 Oct 06 04:10 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Dilli]
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Hmm...someone really need to get laid here grin
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#34273 - 14 Oct 06 04:22 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: D'ruby]
Dilli Offline
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I need something. I have one testicle the size of a grapefruit and the other one is big.
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#34274 - 14 Oct 06 04:31 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: Dilli]
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So what, the testicles are only accessories wink
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#34275 - 14 Oct 06 04:33 Re: Question from a new comer... [Re: D'ruby]
Dilli Offline
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They may only be accessories to you but they are full!
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