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#21541 - 21 Apr 06 07:57 just marry
sonya_tea Offline
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Registered: 08 Nov 05
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hi all, After passing the trip that quite long, finally I married in the relative age the standard for the measurement of the indo woman...
Initially I thought that the marriage was my house to establish the love normally and in a legal manner...And apparently like that smile
But I found something that was different in this life..my husband, my husband's families specially my mother and sister in law..
actually I'm happy enough with this marriage..
mmmmm..I just feel something different..
Possibly had correctly, that in fact the marriage not the main aim in living but the happiness.. smile

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#21542 - 21 Apr 06 08:15 Re: just marry
juminten Offline
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Registered: 08 Dec 05
Posts: 3870
Loc: disana-disini
sonya just got married? congratulations! ready for babies too?
Btw, why did you say "happy enough with this marriage" seems weird to me...! I mean did you marry him for settle down? seriously, do you love your husband?
If I want to marry my dude, I want for our love, our happiness! not for settling down!
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#21543 - 21 Apr 06 08:58 Re: just marry
g00f13 Offline
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Registered: 12 Nov 05
Posts: 739
Loc: earth
Congratulation Sonya! Your life as you know it has now practically ended.


...just kidding...

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#21544 - 21 Apr 06 09:02 Re: just marry
D'ruby Offline
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Registered: 13 Feb 06
Posts: 2177
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Wow...someone got married, hope u have a happily life ever after, congratulation smile
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#21545 - 21 Apr 06 09:07 Re: just marry
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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Registered: 09 Oct 05
Posts: 10790
Loc: Centre of the Universe
so i guess you can let yourself go now, get fat and flabby, not bother making up any more, go easier on the bathing ... yep, just sit at home watching tv soaps with the in-laws, maybe do a load of washing every few days, let the plates pile up in the kitchen ... life is good.
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#21546 - 21 Apr 06 09:20 Re: just marry
D'ruby Offline
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I had some friends from college and used to hang out together, once they got married they're gone by the wind, is there a black hole in marriage world?
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#21547 - 21 Apr 06 09:25 Re: just marry
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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Registered: 09 Oct 05
Posts: 10790
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Quote:
Originally posted by rubyenda:
I had some friends from college and used to hang out together, once they got married they're gone by the wind, is there a black hole in marriage world?
monogamous marriage = black hole wink
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#21548 - 21 Apr 06 09:25 Re: just marry
Diyu Offline
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Registered: 12 Nov 05
Posts: 324
Loc: new zealand
finally I married


Oh well another to join the sucker club. Welcome
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#21549 - 21 Apr 06 10:23 Re: just marry
jok Offline
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Registered: 21 Mar 06
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Loc: Jakarta
well, im still single. i enjoy being single :-)
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#21550 - 21 Apr 06 10:44 Re: just marry
Macan Tutul Offline
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Registered: 02 Dec 05
Posts: 1502
Loc: Jungle and cage ;)
Quote:
Originally posted by KuKuKaChu:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by rubyenda:
[qb] I had some friends from college and used to hang out together, once they got married they're gone by the wind, is there a black hole in marriage world?
monogamous marriage = black hole
Congratulations Ms. Sonya, smile

Kuku.......... :rolleyes: eek laugh
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#21551 - 21 Apr 06 10:50 Re: just marry
Magpie Offline
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Registered: 29 Mar 06
Posts: 1306
Loc: The Toon
Quote:
Originally posted by Macan Tutul:
Quote:
Originally posted by KuKuKaChu:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by rubyenda:
[qb] I had some friends from college and used to hang out together, once they got married they're gone by the wind, is there a black hole in marriage world?
monogamous marriage = black hole
Congratulations Ms. Sonya, smile

Kuku.......... :rolleyes: eek laugh
The Big pussycat, Good morning Mt, hows you today?? Big hugs wink
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#21552 - 21 Apr 06 11:00 Re: just marry
Macan Tutul Offline
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Registered: 02 Dec 05
Posts: 1502
Loc: Jungle and cage ;)
Good afternoon/evening my dear Big Bird...I'm fine,thank you, what about you? *SMOOCH*, HUGS, and CUDDLE wink
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#21553 - 21 Apr 06 11:02 Re: just marry
Magpie Offline
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Registered: 29 Mar 06
Posts: 1306
Loc: The Toon
Good good, its all good here. Did you read the posting about the terrorist warning?
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#21554 - 21 Apr 06 11:09 Re: just marry
Macan Tutul Offline
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Registered: 02 Dec 05
Posts: 1502
Loc: Jungle and cage ;)
Thanks for that, yep I read it but it happen all the time my bird.
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#21555 - 21 Apr 06 11:10 Re: just marry
cherry Offline
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Registered: 08 Nov 05
Posts: 1055
Loc: Indonesia
Quote:
Originally posted by sonya_tea:
hi all, After passing the trip that quite long, finally I married in the relative age the standard for the measurement of the indo woman...
Initially I thought that the marriage was my house to establish the love normally and in a legal manner...And apparently like that smile
But I found something that was different in this life..my husband, my husband's families specially my mother and sister in law..
actually I'm happy enough with this marriage..
mmmmm..I just feel something different..
Possibly had correctly, that in fact the marriage not the main aim in living but the happiness.. smile
many people rush into relationships and marriages for various reason. one reason is that they feel lonely and therefore need a partner.. but remmber that loneliness can still are many people who have many friends and yet they feel lonely inside. everything comes meant to be by your self without a partner, it is absolutely all right. do not force or be focrced to tie the matrimonial knot unless you find a real good reason..

"by all means marry; if you get a good husband, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher."

however teh Sonya, wiluejeng nya..cing betah jadi orang rumahan ayeuna wink
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#21556 - 21 Apr 06 11:11 Re: just marry
Magpie Offline
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Registered: 29 Mar 06
Posts: 1306
Loc: The Toon
I know, just want you to be extra careful, keep away from international buildings. I know it happens all the time, but if you can pay just a little bit of attention, and keep yourself safe, I will get to chat to you for a lot longer, and maybe 1 day you will send me your picture! :-)
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#21557 - 21 Apr 06 11:11 Re: just marry
cherry Offline
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Registered: 08 Nov 05
Posts: 1055
Loc: Indonesia
Quote:
Originally posted by Ela_K:
well, im still single. i enjoy being single :-)
mee to Ela..be single always smile
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#21558 - 21 Apr 06 11:13 Re: just marry
Magpie Offline
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Registered: 29 Mar 06
Posts: 1306
Loc: The Toon
QUOTE]many people rush into relationships and marriages for various reason. one reason is that they feel lonely and therefore need a partner.. but remmber that loneliness can still are many people who have many friends and yet they feel lonely inside. everything comes meant to be by your self without a partner, it is absolutely all right.[/QB][/QUOTE]
Once you have found happiness in your own heart, you will naturally attract those who are looking for the same thing, just make sure you stay away from the ducklings with Broken wings
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#21559 - 21 Apr 06 11:16 Re: just marry
Macan Tutul Offline
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Registered: 02 Dec 05
Posts: 1502
Loc: Jungle and cage ;)
Quote:
Originally posted by Magpie:
I know, just want you to be extra careful, keep away from international buildings. I know it happens all the time, but if you can pay just a little bit of attention, and keep yourself safe, I will get to chat to you for a lot longer, and maybe 1 day you will send me your picture! :-)
Ok, thank you for the concern, I really appreciated, actually when Australian embassy become the bomb target, my place was near that embassy, so it makes me more to pay attention wink
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#21560 - 21 Apr 06 11:44 Re: just marry
Lulu Offline
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Registered: 19 Feb 06
Posts: 2226
Loc: Indonesia
Good morning all!
*smooch* for my Mommy MT!
Congratulation Sonya!!!!!!
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#21561 - 21 Apr 06 11:53 Re: just marry
jok Offline
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Registered: 21 Mar 06
Posts: 1099
Loc: Jakarta
for me now it's good being single. im still below 30 so i just want to enjoy myself being single and dating so many lover (boyfriend) :-D
it's good and fun! the life is so beautiful that's why aku mau puas - puasin dulu masa lajangku sebelum menikah. :-D
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#21562 - 21 Apr 06 11:55 Re: just marry
jok Offline
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Registered: 21 Mar 06
Posts: 1099
Loc: Jakarta
i don't want to try so hard to find bf. i don't want to be a desperate. i just want to enjoy that Love is just like a butterfly :-D
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#21563 - 21 Apr 06 11:57 Re: just marry
juminten Offline
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Registered: 08 Dec 05
Posts: 3870
Loc: disana-disini
Ah..finally I see a mature Ela wink
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#21564 - 21 Apr 06 11:57 Re: just marry
D'ruby Offline
Pujangga

Registered: 13 Feb 06
Posts: 2177
Loc: My
Quote:
Originally posted by KuKuKaChu:
Quote:
Originally posted by rubyenda:
I had some friends from college and used to hang out together, once they got married they're gone by the wind, is there a black hole in marriage world?
monogamous marriage = black hole wink
And Kuku have 4 black holes smile
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#21565 - 21 Apr 06 12:02 Re: just marry
jok Offline
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Registered: 21 Mar 06
Posts: 1099
Loc: Jakarta
Quote:
Originally posted by wallet-digga':
Ah..finally I see a mature Ela wink
Sluttttttt..... ya you have to teach me & help me how to be a mature woman dong.
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