Originally posted by cocomeo:
is anyone can explain to me why Men can turn everything upside down if the woman is being angry at them and make the woman feel guilty for being angry at him??
Well, I know what you mean, but I think both men and women do this. basically
it's because when you are in an argument, nobody wants to lose, so people will try to turn it around, if it means they win. It's the same reason that people say horrible things in an argument, because they are so charged up, they dont think. My trick is, if an argument is brewing, I go for a long long long walk, that way I dont say anything I dont want to, and by the time I get back usually myself, and the potential aruguer have calmed down, and can talk rationally. Remember your emotions are you own worst enemy if you are in an argument