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#20749 - 29 Mar 06 23:56 Share husband
Jokie Jokie Girl Offline
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Registered: 07 Nov 05
Posts: 2552
Loc: Central Jakarta
huhhhh...chatter mania, I dont know, suddenly I wanna share to you guys about this story..
I was watching the movie..."berbagi suami" (share husband-ed )the Indonesian movie in Jakarta Thaeter..
that's really made me climax with the story...
I think that's not only usual movie but that's a real life that when, anywhere could happen and of course could happen to anybody,including you!

basically, the man had not felt satisfied with only a wife, they always had the wish to have the wife more than one..

For some men there are those that could remain with one wife and several affairs, but had also several men who chose to have the wife more than one on the basis of avoiding the sin (adultery)..

annnnddd as women, occasionally must be forced to come to terms with reality...When the husband wanted to marry again...

In this movie, how did a woman try to accept the reality, when she knew her husband had the wife more than one...And how she tried to make a good relations with the wives of her husband...Although initially very painful and could not accept this situation...

I heard several wives, that says "I prefer my husband has an affair, than he wanna marry again".
is that really from the heart frown or only covered the pain...Because basically any woman in this world wouldn't had wanted to shared her husband to other women..

yeah...share your love to other, it's really painful, but sometimes we should!

you guys..if you have a plan to have wife more than one, be afair PLZZZZZ
you girls..if you're the 1st,the 2nd or the 3rd or anything..be patient pLzzz..coz that's the coise of life..
may be one thing sould be remenber that.."Sejauh manapun burung terbang, pasti dia akan kembal ke sangkarnya!"
and the story of this movie really like that..how to "pak haji" (Elmanik-ed) and koko Abun (Tyo Pakusadewo-ed) back to his first wife..even he loved much with his other wives..

actually I don't mean anything about this one.. I just wanna share and make a new topic here..
hopefully you guys understand with my fuckup english..


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#20750 - 30 Mar 06 00:02 Re: Share husband
Dilli Offline
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Got the drift JG! Sometimes however, life is just not a cut and dried situation. People change over the years, its a question of honesty in a relationship! Most people I know are so dishonest that they are bankrupt, trick is, be honest before the morality police get to you!

Fine words spoken from the most dishonouraable person I now! - Me!
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#20751 - 30 Mar 06 00:09 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 13 Feb 06
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I don't know..never get married, so how do I know?

maybe I should not get one, so nothing to share wink
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#20752 - 30 Mar 06 00:30 Re: Share husband
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Loc: disana-disini
Hey..I'm not married YET, if I was and my husband cheated on me, I'll CUT his balls off and freez it! period and no discussion!

NO sharing husband for me! sounds very selfish but my man is my man! I'd die for the man I love. sorry!
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#20753 - 30 Mar 06 00:39 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 19 Feb 06
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Loc: Indonesia
Lho...babe? Just awake? Mwaaahhhh.
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#20754 - 30 Mar 06 00:41 Re: Share husband
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U could be so idealist when you're not inside the chain.

Well, am not sure about rolling the dice, marriage is not just about gambling, it's your life, your future.
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#20755 - 30 Mar 06 00:42 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 08 Dec 05
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Loc: disana-disini
hey baby, good morning. I'm about to leave work, meeting at USC all damn day..I'm still not fweeling good. I think the presentations gonna be disaster.
kisses!
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#20756 - 30 Mar 06 00:44 Re: Share husband
Lulu Offline
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Registered: 19 Feb 06
Posts: 2226
Loc: Indonesia
Oh, take care babe! Don't get yourself too tired. Have some James vitamin tonight then... smile
Mwaaahhh.
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#20757 - 30 Mar 06 00:50 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 08 Dec 05
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James is in the desert (Fresno) doing photo shoots. NO, no dude this time he says..LOL! I asked him, honey..more nudes this time? playgirl again? he said, no this is for some new men magazines.
I warned him, "be good..your ass is mine" he said "I know" :p
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#20758 - 30 Mar 06 01:02 Re: Share husband
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Hehehe...that's good honey.
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#20759 - 30 Mar 06 01:03 Re: Share husband
Lulu Offline
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Registered: 19 Feb 06
Posts: 2226
Loc: Indonesia
Quote:
Originally posted by Black Adder:
Ruby, Life is a gamble, you take risks just walking out the front door. I take a risk that the Batak Bitchy wife will come back on here and start coming after me. We all take risks, they should be calculated and knowledgable but they are still risks. Or you could just let us have a forum meeting one night somewhere in Blok M and we could pick out a husband for you?
BA...BA...Sigh...don't teach little girl nasty things ach! Just keep it between you and the Batak Bitchy Wife...lol
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#20760 - 30 Mar 06 01:04 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 13 Feb 06
Posts: 2177
Loc: My
Quote:
Originally posted by Black Adder:
Ruby, Life is a gamble, you take risks just walking out the front door. I take a risk that the Batak Bitchy wife will come back on here and start coming after me. We all take risks, they should be calculated and knowledgable but they are still risks. Or you could just let us have a forum meeting one night somewhere in Blok M and we could pick out a husband for you?
Thanks blackie, u make my night.

Blok M husband? One night?
That's a real risky... smile
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#20761 - 30 Mar 06 01:08 Re: Share husband
Lulu Offline
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Registered: 19 Feb 06
Posts: 2226
Loc: Indonesia
Everything in this world is risky honey. When you roll the dice, you just got to know what is your limitation of losing and also the winning.
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#20762 - 30 Mar 06 06:36 Re: Share husband
Polar Bear Offline
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
Quote:
Originally posted by Black Adder:
I say we find your future huband in Oscar's, that place always has the most fine up standing gentlemen on the Blok.
I frequent Oscars...... A lot.

I think it is the best bar on the Blok. Live music, fun staff, cute girls, but not as "in your face" as "Ds" or MyBar, or as dead as Topgun was (what is it like now).

The word is Blok M will get a lot of attention after June, that will pretty well close it down for good. the guys go there for the Ayam. If the police arrest the Ayam under the porn law, the Ayam will move away. then the guys will stay away.

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#20763 - 30 Mar 06 07:53 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 12 Nov 05
Posts: 739
Loc: earth
Jokgirl, it's hard enough looking after 1 wife or 1 GF, let alone more than 1.

Life is complicated as it is why would one want to add anything to the mix?

Some people can't even find 1 let alone marry more than 1.

Is it selfishness on the male part if he decides to have more than 1? I don't know I can't answer that. I never have any inclination to add 1 or more. As Gek Ayu WD said, she'll cut my balls and throw them to the dogs. The dogs probably won't dare to touch them.

My motto has always "The first one is almost always the right one".

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#20764 - 30 Mar 06 08:36 Re: Share husband
Polar Bear Offline
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
I collect watches. i have 100+. nice ones, some quite old.

the big problem - you can only wear one at a time.

same thing with wives. How man can you sausage at once?

I think I could sausage 6 in quick sucession....

Q: Do they all sleep in the one bed. Is wife 2 lying there watching wife 1 getting rodgered sensesless? I think that minght be cool....

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#20765 - 30 Mar 06 09:49 Re: Share husband
Dilli Offline
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Registered: 26 Feb 06
Posts: 8044
Loc: Nearest Bar
How many watches fit on the great PB appendage at one time?
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#20766 - 30 Mar 06 10:01 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
I can showcase a dozen at any one time. they all have to be shockproof though....

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#20767 - 30 Mar 06 10:09 Re: Share husband
Dilli Offline
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Registered: 26 Feb 06
Posts: 8044
Loc: Nearest Bar
Do you have a Casio G-Spot-Shock
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#20768 - 04 Apr 06 08:12 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 29 Mar 06
Posts: 1306
Loc: The Toon
Quote:
Originally posted by wallet-digga':
Hey..I'm not married YET, if I was and my husband cheated on me, I'll CUT his balls off and freez it! period and no discussion!

NO sharing husband for me! sounds very selfish but my man is my man! I'd die for the man I love. sorry!
Yep, there are lots of women out there like this. My Angel is exactly the same. Some people can handle open relationships...for a while. Some people have more than 1 wife. Personaly I could only ever have 1 wife at a time, its the way I am made up. But each to their own. IF you enjoy it, and can handle it, why not.
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#20769 - 05 Apr 06 19:07 Re: Share husband
cherry Offline
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Registered: 08 Nov 05
Posts: 1055
Loc: Indonesia
Quote:
Originally posted by Magpie:
Quote:
Originally posted by wallet-digga':
Hey..I'm not married YET, if I was and my husband cheated on me, I'll CUT his balls off and freez it! period and no discussion!

NO sharing husband for me! sounds very selfish but my man is my man! I'd die for the man I love. sorry!
Yep, there are lots of women out there like this. My Angel is exactly the same. Some people can handle open relationships...for a while. Some people have more than 1 wife. Personaly I could only ever have 1 wife at a time, its the way I am made up. But each to their own. IF you enjoy it, and can handle it, why not.
but the probs is..most of men are enjoy but sometimes couldn't handle it...
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#20770 - 05 Apr 06 19:22 Re: Share husband
Polar Bear Offline
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
I dont mind you girls sharing me. its ok.... smile

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#20771 - 07 Apr 06 16:12 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 17 Nov 05
Posts: 182
Loc: singapore
one god i understand but one wife thats
crazy hahaha the more the merrier
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#20772 - 07 Apr 06 18:42 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
Nagging in stereo.......

Honeeeeeeeeeee I need new shoes

Honeeeeeeeeeee I need new dress

Honeeeeeeeeeeee I need

sod that for a game of soldiers!

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#20773 - 07 Apr 06 18:50 Re: Share husband
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Registered: 13 Feb 06
Posts: 2177
Loc: My
PB, u need many pembantu, not many wives :p
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