actually this question is just for the ladies, but man are welcome to shout
i have a friend that have a bad experience with his rough hand, he had it because he worked that hard for making some money. once in time, he met a girl on the club, after have a some chit-chat, he asked her to dance, but when the girl touch his hand, she spontaneously said " eeew...you have a rough hand" with dislike expression on her face, it was make him feel so bad and offended, beside that she said that infront of his friend whose have what we called "nice soft hand", that experience make him feel uncomfortable to have a handshake.
so ladies, what do you think ?? which one is kinda cool ? raugh hand or soft hand ?