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#1748 - 12 Jan 06 19:04 Men scared of relationships
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From the Japan Times:

According to sources, many eligible Japanese men are in the throes of what's become known as "Renai Ken-o Sho (Dislike of Love Relationships)" and, consequently, the number of loving couples has plummeted to probably the lowest in the last decade. Single women are complaining that the dating scene has never been so barren, and those fortunate enough to have boyfriends live in fear of the extremely high turnover rate: "Kyo no kanojyo wa ashita no moto-kano. (Today's girlfriend is tomorrow's ex-girlfriend)."

Yes, there is less relationship-security now than ever before, and it's all the result of the Japanese male's seeming reluctance to get close, get committed and become that most coveted of conditions: "jyounetsuteki (passionate)."

Michiyo did an informal survey among the single men in her department, and reports that six out of eight replied that the reason they choose to avoid ren'ai altogether is because they cannot see any merit in being with women. "Onnanoko wa mendoudashi, renraku shinakya-naranaishi, purezento toka okane kakarushi . . . (Girls are a hassle, they expect me to call, I have to buy them gifts and that would cost money)" was one 34-year-old male's sum-up. He would rather deploy his funds and time in other ways, ways that would be infinitely more rewarding than in a "kocchini nanno tokuni naranai (There's no profit to be gained)" love relationship.

The article is at :
http://www.japantimes.co.jp/cgi-bin/getarticle.pl5?ek20060110ks.htm

So girls - is there a drought in your part of the world?

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#1749 - 12 Jan 06 23:00 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Hey..I am the one who scared of relationship, I was engaged twice with 2 diff guys, I quit..called the wedding off shocked
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#1750 - 13 Jan 06 06:05 Re: Men scared of relationships
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I once dated a girl who had 7 engagement rings. Two were from the SAME GUY!!! She called it off, got engaged to someone else, broke that off, then went back to the earlier guy and made him buy a second engagement ring!!!

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#1751 - 13 Jan 06 06:39 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Quote:
Originally posted by JakGirl:
Hey..I am the one who scared of relationship, I was engaged twice with 2 diff guys, I quit..called the wedding off shocked
I wish I did that 5 years ago...
Indonesian court system imut banget...

Does anyone knows a good hit-man?.. please PM me laugh
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#1752 - 13 Jan 06 06:42 Re: Men scared of relationships
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I will do it for a night with Inggrit :-)

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#1753 - 13 Jan 06 06:54 Re: Men scared of relationships
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What happened to your Polaroid?

Are you working under cover now as a hit-man, or did you dismembered the zoo keeper and they put you in quarantine now?
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#1754 - 13 Jan 06 08:31 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Quote:
Originally posted by Polar Bear:
I will do it for a night with Inggrit :-)
are you sure?
yes, best with me is just for a night engagement, coz i worry you will fucked up in the relationship with me wink
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#1755 - 13 Jan 06 08:41 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Quote:
Originally posted by Polar Bear:
I once dated a girl who had 7 engagement rings. Two were from the SAME GUY!!! She called it off, got engaged to someone else, broke that off, then went back to the earlier guy and made him buy a second engagement ring!!!
what she did is just like me. she doesn't want to have the engagement... she just want to have the ring... that's all!
Lumayan kan kalo di jual wink
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#1756 - 13 Jan 06 09:41 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Everyone needs a hobby. Some people collect stamps :-)

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#1757 - 13 Jan 06 11:13 Re: Men scared of relationships
cherry Offline
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Quote:
Originally posted by inggrit brown:
Quote:
Originally posted by Polar Bear:
I once dated a girl who had 7 engagement rings. Two were from the SAME GUY!!! She called it off, got engaged to someone else, broke that off, then went back to the earlier guy and made him buy a second engagement ring!!!
what she did is just like me. she doesn't want to have the engagement... she just want to have the ring... that's all!
Lumayan kan kalo di jual wink
ya... too many gals tried to assembel welths from her boy or her partner and then she sold, after that she tried to looking for new one..in Bahasa "cewek matere" selingkuh sana-selingkuh sini, kawin sana-kawin sini buat ngumpulin harta gono-goni:)
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#1758 - 13 Jan 06 11:16 Re: Men scared of relationships
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In the west - a "gold digger"

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#1759 - 15 Jan 06 03:39 Re: Men scared of relationships
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I gave the ring back to him! coz I broke up with him. According to Californi law, if the man broke up with her, she keeps the ring. If the girl broke up with him she must give the ring back to him!
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#1760 - 15 Jan 06 07:43 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Wow, you still have a lot to learn.....

Most girls can trick a guy into dumping her!!!

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#1761 - 16 Jan 06 13:30 Re: Men scared of relationships
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PB, when thing didn't work out well, I like to move on fast. What's the point for keeping the ring if you don't like this person anymore. The 5 karat diamond ring meant nothing to me...but happinesss! Seriously, I'll take a plastic engagement ring instead if he makes me happy.
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#1762 - 16 Jan 06 14:04 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Your my sort of girl!!!!

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#1763 - 16 Jan 06 14:23 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Quote:
Originally posted by JakGirl:
I'll take a plastic engagement ring instead if he makes me happy.
Will a Coca Cola lid also do babe? Please! wink
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#1764 - 16 Jan 06 14:39 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Hey..you woke up arredy?? did you dream about me wink
A cola led..omm mygawwd..are you really flat broke? you must be spent all the Rp on ayams..LOL!
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#1765 - 16 Jan 06 14:57 Re: Men scared of relationships
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I was just trying. You Indonesians are used to tawar menawar aint yah? smile
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#1766 - 16 Jan 06 15:02 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Quote:
Originally posted by JakGirl:
Hey..you woke up arredy?? did you dream about me wink
I woke up this morning, checked my email and I'm sure I will be dreaming of you for the rest of the day. There should be a new law in California. Cock teasers should be arrested. laugh
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#1767 - 16 Jan 06 15:17 Re: Men scared of relationships
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...LOL!
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#1768 - 16 Jan 06 15:32 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Quote:
Originally posted by Risad Gir:
Quote:
Originally posted by JakGirl:
I'll take a plastic engagement ring instead if he makes me happy.
Will a Coca Cola lid also do babe? Please! wink
don't listen to him, sayang. i've got a rubber band (karet) right here on my desk, and it's all yours ...
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#1769 - 16 Jan 06 15:43 Re: Men scared of relationships
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William offers his ring to EVERYONE!!!!!

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#1770 - 16 Jan 06 19:14 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Loc: Surabaya
Quote:
Originally posted by KuKuKaChu:
don't listen to him, sayang. i've got a rubber band (karet) right here on my desk, and it's all yours ...
You are so sneaky and slick. Real smooth KuKuKaChu. But aahh ... Thatís no 100% karet. You just took an old used condom, cut of the shaft, rolled up the edges and made it look like a rubber ring.

It isnít even rubber, its latex dude.
At least my rings are 100% aluminum. And Iíve got them engraved.
JakGirl is gonna love them. wink
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#1771 - 17 Jan 06 06:48 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Maybe I'll just marry both of you! engrave the ring with our names "Kuku, JakGirl, Risad Gir" wow..3some! hehe..he! must be nice having two husbands in my bed...
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#1772 - 17 Jan 06 07:51 Re: Men scared of relationships
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Quote:
Originally posted by JakGirl:
must be nice having two husbands in my bed...
and a lover in the cupboard :-)

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