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#17358 - 09 Nov 05 16:05 now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
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Registered: 06 Nov 05
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Loc: Jakarta
The jkt girls are only interested in young tall and gorgeous bule playboys. Any bule guy who doesn´t meet those requirements is fully ignored by all girls. They only like the tall handsome young playboy and it does´t matter if he´s poor, stupid and a bad person, they all only go for the looks.
For me it will forever be impossible to even find an indonesian female friend, let alone a girfriend (hahaha completely impossible) The reasons, i have a well paid expat job in jkt and i´m way too old. Not a single girl in jkt would ever think about dating a 32 yo bule. They would rather die a terrible death.
Unfortunately there are no girls who use their brain and who look a bit further than just looks if they look for a g uy. And then they are always complaining about the bule guys being playboys. Well who is to blame here?

Recent figures have shown that there are around 750.000 western people in Jakarta at any given time. 75.000 of these people are tourists and the male/female ratio is 70/30%. This means that about 500.000 bule guys are (semi) permanently living in Jakarta. Their average age is 29 years old and about 85% of these guys fit the profile (so they are young tall and gorgeous) No wonder that i can´t f ind a gf in Jkt. There are simply too many gorgeous young bule playboys running around.

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#17359 - 10 Nov 05 17:56 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
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Loc: Jakarta
Oh gee... even my explanation can NOT make ur eyes open..u just BLAME all indo girl DUMMY ????

Firstly, i dont want to respond this pathetic email...but HEY, u just underestimate, and intellectually haresment!!!!!!

For a few good WOMEN in indo/ JAKARTA who has IQ more than 120 ...just like me..135 FYI, it really HURT !!!!

I just wanna make this clear NOt all INDO WOMAN DUMMY, GOLD-DIGGER..only see physic..

What the hell u r ??? dont u dare THINK and GENERALIZE that 100 % (even 99,9 %) ...INDO WOMAN suck..
i dont wanna hate u, but u make my hatred about all the bule who really has confidence can get any dummy indo chicks easily by their USD face emerge greatly !!!

if only i can meet u and make ur eyes OPEN ..ur bottom hearth OPEN..
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#17360 - 10 Nov 05 18:00 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
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why u r so pathetic like this ? u only 32 years old, u r not old..??? maybe u have to change ur to-be-girl-friend-target age. maybe u only looking idiot-teen-indo chicks?? who too lazy to use their brain????

even I hate that kind of stupid girls..
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#17361 - 10 Nov 05 20:19 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
douce_qipus Offline
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thanks to someone in Jaksel who make me chill out..
dear dutch_guy, u dont have any right say so, before u make a depth research on what u above-mentioned..
hm, (take a deep breath)..u have to contemplate ...rather than blame ..U r 32 years old, ur life is ur responsibiity..so please Grow up man..

just want to give u lesson.. u cant judge all people same....i am indo woman, i have brain to be used to work..as legal supervisor at IT co..and i am not like those IDIOT chicks u met..
and women like me, is not just one..
2 of my sisters married to western..(thanks GOD their husband never work or stay in Indo)..and mys sisters have to work hard to get their education (they have bachelor degree in reputable university in Indo but since they want to work there rather than ask money to their hubbies, they should have certificate from those country..even one of my sister have to learn French language...)..

now, I hope u have widen ur opinion..
bonne soire, bien amicalement..
peace
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#17362 - 10 Nov 05 20:27 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
preman Offline
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Registered: 16 Oct 05
Posts: 31
Loc: Jakarta
Quote:
Originally posted by douce_qipus:
thanks to someone in Jaksel who make me chill out..
dear dutch_guy, u dont have any right say so, before u make a depth research on what u above-mentioned..
hm,
douce_qipus, you should just ignore this guy, he's just a pervert from belanda. he does this same story over and over in all the message boards in jakarta. "kelainan" namanya. he should be banned actually,

there's plenty of other much more intelligent and sexually normal people on this board to talk to! wink

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#17363 - 12 Nov 05 00:35 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
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Registered: 11 Nov 05
Posts: 6
Loc: bintaro jaya
hahaha nederlander toch wat een woede zit er in je
ik ben indisch nederlander en ja om vrouwelijke aandacht zit ik niet verlegen.. hangt er van af waar je heen gaat qua uitgaans of datingsplek en zo.die ene indo vrouw kan zich boos maken om je uitlatingen maar er zit wel een kern van waarheid in het kan wel genuanceerder want er zijn genoeg hoogopgeleide vrouwen die wel heus iets met je willen... en ook klasse hebben.ik ga je geen tips geven ervaring leert en zo is het ook met fouten maken...

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#17364 - 13 Nov 05 23:34 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
GlueToMusic Offline
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Registered: 14 Nov 05
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Loc: Amsterdam
The dutch guy is frustrated.Good for him let him stay in his shit

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#17365 - 25 Nov 05 19:13 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
Diyu Offline
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Registered: 12 Nov 05
Posts: 324
Loc: new zealand
Hey Dutch Guy, STOP YA BLOODY MOANING , GET IN A TAKSI GO TO BLOK M, GET A WOMAN AND GET A LIFE
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#17366 - 26 Nov 05 18:53 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
douce_qipus Offline
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Registered: 09 Nov 05
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Loc: Jakarta
Thanks Preman :-)
i just wonder what's WRONg with this guy, as i have seen his pictures, his looking is NOT bad..really..
I guess the BIG problem is, he has no self esteem, self confidence..
and not determined on what he REALLY want..he confused me, what he desire to get, a sex (then like DIyu suggestion, just go find AYAM) or a true relationship??

Have a nice week end u all :-)
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#17367 - 26 Nov 05 19:26 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
Diyu Offline
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Registered: 12 Nov 05
Posts: 324
Loc: new zealand
The jkt girls are only interested in young tall and gorgeous bule playboys. Any bule guy who doesn´t meet those requirements is fully ignored by all girls. They only like the tall handsome young playboy and it does´t matter if he´s poor, stupid and a bad person, they all only go for the looks.

This me old mate is a lot of codswallop,Most indonesian woman are not that shallow,They take a person as they are and not what they are worth, If you are a genuine and responsible person and not some over sexed hormone on legs after some aluring young ayam you would meet many attractive Ladies, and i emphasise the word lady for a great relationship. Take it from some-one who knows. I am short,over50,bald,overweight and not financially well off but i have a gorgeous indonesian wife, so it works
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#17368 - 26 Nov 05 19:28 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
Diyu Offline
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Registered: 12 Nov 05
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Loc: new zealand
Oh yeah for got to mention me old fellow is 11 inches long
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#17369 - 28 Nov 05 17:45 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
douce_qipus Offline
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Registered: 09 Nov 05
Posts: 185
Loc: Jakarta
diyu,
hope ur success story inspire that Dutch guy

last friday evening when i have meeting with French young (not tall) guy for discuss an event held by his company, every 5 minutes indo female who works at that building see us--of course they see that cute French guy, not me hahaha- --

so Dutch guy, all u have to do is increase ur self confidence ..cheer up and dont be so pathetic like that, no one, particularly ladies dont like that..u look not as charming person if u dont have self confidence, just feel u have sexy and hot body :-)
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#17370 - 28 Nov 05 23:32 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
Diyu Offline
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Registered: 12 Nov 05
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Loc: new zealand
so Dutch guy, all u have to do is increase ur self confidence ..cheer up and dont be so pathetic like that, no one, particularly ladies dont like that..u look not as charming person if u dont have self confidence, just feel u have sexy and hot body :-)

You tell him baby, A hot body and inscrutible charm and it does help to have a pocket full of money
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#17371 - 30 Nov 05 18:02 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
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No one likes you cos your a tosser. Go stick your fingers in the power point and do us all a favour.

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#17372 - 01 Dec 05 01:38 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
Diyu Offline
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Registered: 12 Nov 05
Posts: 324
Loc: new zealand
Quote:
Originally posted by rosco:
No one likes you cos your a tosser. Go stick your fingers in the power point and do us all a favour.
OOPS hit a nerve
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#17373 - 01 Dec 05 08:16 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
Booty Lover Offline
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Registered: 17 Nov 05
Posts: 35
Loc: Jakarta
Quote:
Originally posted by Diyu:
Quote:
Originally posted by rosco:
No one likes you cos your a tosser. Go stick your fingers in the power point and do us all a favour.
OOPS hit a nerve
Dutch Guy/Short Guy/Badluck/KB has been trolling his "why can't I get laid in Indonesia" on at least two other forums as well. He wore out his welcome a long time ago.

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#17374 - 01 Dec 05 08:45 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
I think all losers should do the owrld a favour and jump off the tallest building they can find.

Duck Guy - its called "Darwin's tough luck". yourt too useless to be allowed to breed so no one goes near you. Do the world a favour, keep your pecker in your pocket and piss off.

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#17375 - 01 Dec 05 19:35 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
Diyu Offline
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Registered: 12 Nov 05
Posts: 324
Loc: new zealand
[QUOTE]Originally posted by rosco:
[QB] I think all losers should do the owrld a favour and jump off the tallest building they can find.

Please mr Rosco don,t do it
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#17376 - 01 Dec 05 21:02 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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Registered: 09 Oct 05
Posts: 10790
Loc: Centre of the Universe
Quote:
Originally posted by Booty Lover:
Dutch Guy/Short Guy/Badluck/KB has been trolling his "why can't I get laid in Indonesia" on at least two other forums as well. He wore out his welcome a long time ago.
some people here just haven't caught on that the guy's a loser. it's a fetish, for certain. booties i can relate to; dutch guys trip is just beyond me.
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#17377 - 02 Dec 05 10:25 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
Polar Bear Offline
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
Quote:
Originally posted by Diyu:
Please mr Rosco don,t do it
LOL -
I didnt mean me! But well said! touche!

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#17378 - 10 Dec 05 21:04 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
douce_qipus Offline
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Registered: 09 Nov 05
Posts: 185
Loc: Jakarta
where is my pathetic guy ??? hehehe i miss this dutch guy ...
so how is ur love story H ?
invite me again on YM pls..
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#17379 - 11 Dec 05 19:48 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
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Registered: 09 Dec 05
Posts: 548
Loc: Surabaya
Quote:
Originally posted by dutch_guy:
They only like the tall handsome young playboy and it does´t matter if he´s poor, stupid and a bad person, they all only go for the looks.
Hidden message nr 1:
I'm short, brilliant and very loyal, but be warned... I'm ugly as hell.


Quote:
Originally posted by dutch_guy:
The reasons, i have a well paid expat job in jkt and i´m way too old. Not a single girl in jkt would ever think about dating a 32 yo bule. They would rather die a terrible death.
Hidden message nr 2: I have loads of money, Actually, I'm not that old hehehe, O yeah... btw, and I’m ugly as hell.


Quote:
Originally posted by dutch_guy:
Unfortunately there are no girls who use their brain and who look a bit further than just looks if they look for a g uy. And then they are always complaining about the bule guys being playboys. Well who is to blame here?
Hidden message nr 3: All stupid Indonesian chicks must fall in to my brilliant tricks, like in this advertisement, Actually, I'm not that old hehehe, O yeah... btw, and I’m ugly as hell.


Quote:
Originally posted by dutch_guy:
Their average age is 29 years old and about 85% of these guys fit the profile (so they are young tall and gorgeous) No wonder that i can´t f ind a gf in Jkt. There are simply too many gorgeous young bule playboys running around.
Hidden message 4:
I'm short, 3 years older then average (not bad right?), but be warned... I'm ugly as hell.


Sorry Mr. Dutch Guy.
I'm Dutch to. And I think you make a big fool out of your self and Dutch reputation in general. I think you’re just a snake and a scam artist, and I'm convinced no Dutch girl could stand it with you for more then a day anyway.

I'm also not a pretty boy; I'm almost 40 years old. But I never had nor have a problem with getting girls. It’s all about attitude and style Mr. And a girl, Indonesian, Dutch or whatever nation, they have a perfect sense to separate the losers from the real man.

Your only goal is to delude a victim into thinking that she has been singled out to participate in a very lucrative relationship with you. That’s what scam artists are all about.

Don't you blame it on the young, tall, gorgeous expats, they do
“work out” you know? All you've have been doing is stuffing you’re big fat belly with "broodje kroket".
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#17380 - 12 Dec 05 00:29 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
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Registered: 08 Dec 05
Posts: 3870
Loc: disana-disini
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Don't you blame it on the young, tall, gorgeous expats, they do “work out” you know? All you've have been doing is stuffing you’re big fat belly with "broodje kroket". [/QB]
Yep,..I am an Indo girl, and a sucker for gorgeous bule with brain! he is tall 6.2, 210 lbs, he works out, has sexy abs, nice butt, funny, silly, horny...and has little money, I still want him wink
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#17381 - 12 Dec 05 17:42 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
douce_qipus Offline
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Registered: 09 Nov 05
Posts: 185
Loc: Jakarta
quoted from risad :

Don't you blame it on the young, tall, gorgeous expats, they do
“work out” you know? All you've have been doing is stuffing you’re big fat belly with "broodje kroket".

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Risad, and all guys & gals :
this Dutch Guy is not like u imagined.. he is physically good : 6-pack-belly, 174 cm, proportional weight, good looking, and have a good job..
so it makes me more curious actually what is he exact problem ?????? he's still 32 years old..maybe the youngest guy in this forum..
i have chatted with him, and i dunno why he doesnt have self confidence..maybe bad experience when he was in senior high..
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#17382 - 13 Dec 05 12:41 Re: now i understand why not one girl in jkt likes me
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Registered: 09 Nov 05
Posts: 185
Loc: Jakarta
Btw guys, my elder sister and some 13 writers has written a story about mixtured married (indo and foreigner --sorry in this edition married under indo law) this book is published by Lingkar Pena Publishing House (LPPH)..in January or march . 1st edition maybe only in Melbourne and jakarta.

this books tell us everything about mixtured mariage, especially the complicated culture.. how to respect two different cultures, background of family, the way of life etc how to adaptation with new life, especially live aboard..

from this book we can understand that GOd creates us in so many tribes, religions, to respect each other, to learn to understand other people who totally different from us..

could help u ladies who plan to married to foreigners..
cheers,
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