well, i was more lucky then!
without telling any sad story there was this chick in surabaya dragging me to a hotel (a hotel which was rented by the hour!), and after a couple of hours she paid the bill and left! She didn't give me any taksi money though...
And this was not an old ugly bitch either... :-)
I met her in a place in surabaya, a bar called Colors, lotsa rich indo girls there!