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#12859 - 03 Aug 06 22:31 What turns a girl on?
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A poll of Singapore girls on what makes a man sexy found that intangible qualities like "confidence and assuredness" and "sparkling intelligence and wit" that the majority of readers, 27.7% and 32.8% respectively, voted for. "Smouldering eyes and sultry lips" came in a distant third with only 17.6% votes.

http://www.mediacorpsingapore.com/purplelips/love/articles/20001215_01a.htm


1. Confidence and charm
Like the men we had interviewed earlier (Sex Appeal - Do You Have It?) who unanimously agreed that sexiness is about how a woman carries herself and not about bared skin (exactly why men stare so earnestly at skimpily-clad women still baffles us), our panel found self-assurance and charm irresistible attributes.

Sexiness is about "self-assurance, confidence, charm and culture," Jo rattles off, adding that "he must carry and conduct himself with style." Juay agrees. "(He should) show confidence and charm," she nods. Su can't agree more. Says she, "a charming guy makes me look forward to his company". Pam sums up: a sexy man "carries himself well".


2. Attitude and machismo
Getting down to the specifics, Tras adds to the list "a certain insouciance, a devil-may-care attitude" that is simply irresistible in a man. Indeed, since the original bad boy James Dean hooked us on attitude, women the world over have been bowled over by unconventional men, think Johnny Depp and his Asian equivalent, Nicholas Tse.

Perhaps a rebel reeks of self-assurance, a "kinda attitude", as Yuen puts it, or a certain machismo. Pam certainly agrees that "manly and charismatic" men are extremely sexy. Mel is less restrained in her opinion. "(A man) who has a certain kind of 'man appeal' makes me want to have him!" she all but screams.


3. Intelligence and wit
Cerebral men, it seems, are also extremely sexy. Jenevieve finds it hard to resist the "sexual appeal" of intelligent men. To Tras, "a man who is not intellectually stimulating is a turn-off", even if he's drop dead gorgeous. Maybe it boils down to the ability to communicate, to "hold a conversation", says Yuen, who herself has a weakness for articulate men. Or maybe, as Jo opines, having "depth of knowledge" helps keep boredom at bay. Regardless the reason, what Juay says is perhaps most telling: "Intelligence and wits come before washboard abs and all."


4. Looks
Confidence, attitude, self-assurance and intelligence. Are these all there is to making us sweat? No, unfortunately, we're not little angels. Pure looks and physical assets turn us very much hot under our skirts. "Taller than average and fit (men) with tight bums" is Herlinda's idea of sexiness, while "abs to die for" is Jenevieve's. "Muscular with strong physique," Megan contributes, while Sher offers, "a low husky voice and a bit hairy."

If you're despairing already, wait till you hear Jo's list: "Engaging smile, square jaws, laughing eyes, full lips." Taking a deep breath, she continues, "Well-toned body with V-shape, defined abs, broad shoulders, strong hands." Phew

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#12860 - 04 Aug 06 00:05 Re: What turns a girl on?
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What turns wd on?

a nude model named "james"
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#12861 - 04 Aug 06 00:17 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Quote:
Originally posted by wallet-digga':
What turns wd on?

a nude model named "james"
Really? I thought seeing me naked can turn you on too? :p

Don't get turn on now, or perhaps you should bring spare panty to ofc. Better if you don't wear any laugh

Happy working babe *smooches*
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#12862 - 04 Aug 06 08:11 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Girls, I raise a serious topic and its reduced in two posts to nude men and pantiless women. smile

WD, Lulu, do you agree with those findings?

Is confidence and assuredness" and "sparkling intelligence and wit" more important than looks?

Seems I fail every step smile

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#12863 - 04 Aug 06 08:25 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Quote:
Originally posted by The One and Only Polar Bear:


Is confidence and assuredness" and "sparkling intelligence and wit" more important than looks?
Definitely.. and lucky you have all!


That's why alot of women are attracted to older men..

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#12864 - 04 Aug 06 08:26 Re: What turns a girl on?
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PB, #1,2,3,4 all of them i found in my dude James, thats why he turns me on. i'm serious! it sounds too perfect about him, but ist true!
he has a look, body, good attitude, down to earth, effectionate, intelligent, educated, goofy and brain..a huge brain! and came from a very stable, educated, respectable family!
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#12865 - 04 Aug 06 08:34 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Quote:
Originally posted by wallet-digga':
PB, #1,2,3,4 all of them i found in my dude James, thats why he turns me on. i'm serious! it sounds too perfect about him, but ist true!
he has a look, body, good attitude, down to earth, effectionate, intelligent, educated, goofy and brain..a huge brain! and came from a very stable, educated, respectable family!
DAMN. that is serious competition!!!

Would a 140kg slob who looks like an idiot, has no hair, an IQ on the minus side and failed Junior School stand a chance? Nope, i suppose I dont smile

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#12866 - 04 Aug 06 08:35 Re: What turns a girl on?
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nope...lol..no way! lol...
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#12867 - 04 Aug 06 08:37 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Quote:
Originally posted by The One and Only Polar Bear:

Would a 140kg slob who looks like an idiot, has no hair, an IQ on the minus side and failed Junior School stand a chance? Nope, i suppose I dont smile
Maybe.. everything's possible with money.. laugh

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#12868 - 04 Aug 06 08:47 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Quote:
Originally posted by wallet-digga':
PB, #1,2,3,4 all of them i found in my dude James, thats why he turns me on. i'm serious! it sounds too perfect about him, but ist true!
he has a look, body, good attitude, down to earth, effectionate, intelligent, educated, goofy and brain..a huge brain! and came from a very stable, educated, respectable family!
sounds too damn good to be true. i betcha he's a serial killer.
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#12869 - 04 Aug 06 08:58 Re: What turns a girl on?
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NICE ONE Kuku, psychops would be impressed with that one.

Add just a tiny seed of doubt into WD mind. Then every night she will wonder - can he be so perfect. By next week she will be convinced he has some major flaw.

classic use of the technique.

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#12870 - 04 Aug 06 09:04 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Quote:
Originally posted by KuKuKaChu:
Quote:
Originally posted by wallet-digga':
PB, #1,2,3,4 all of them i found in my dude James, thats why he turns me on. i'm serious! it sounds too perfect about him, but ist true!
he has a look, body, good attitude, down to earth, effectionate, intelligent, educated, goofy and brain..a huge brain! and came from a very stable, educated, respectable family!
sounds too damn good to be true. i betcha he's a serial killer.
lol..hey you got your sexy abs from his tips too..you admire his washboard abs! smile
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#12871 - 04 Aug 06 09:15 Re: What turns a girl on?
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well, heres a list about my dude.
1. physically perfect! 6"1 200lbs, fitness model.
2. very good looking, great smiles with perfect teeth.
3. drives black germany car 530i, got beautiful houses (owned)
4.he just turned 34, down to earth, goofy, got lots friends, and close to his family.
5.and he is an ER doctor...
6.great molester..and yes he is killer kisser!
7.his family love me wink
8. case closed! and not arguable laugh
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#12872 - 04 Aug 06 09:25 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Sexy Legs, !

you should show this mad cow your pics/yourdudes! i'm not fussy.. bikini clad ones, or even naked ones, will be viewed gladly..

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#12873 - 04 Aug 06 09:27 Re: What turns a girl on?
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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Quote:
Originally posted by wallet-digga':
well, heres a list about my dude.
1. physically perfect! 6"1 200lbs, fitness model.
2. very good looking, great smiles with perfect teeth.
3. drives black germany car 530i, got beautiful houses (owned)
4.he just turned 34, down to earth, goofy, got lots friends, and close to his family.
5.and he is an ER doctor...
6.great molester..and yes he is killer kisser!
7.his family love me wink
8. case closed! and not arguable laugh
yep. that's what they all say ...
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#12874 - 04 Aug 06 09:29 Re: What turns a girl on?
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
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Quote:
Originally posted by The One and Only Polar Bear:
NICE ONE Kuku, psychops would be impressed with that one.

Add just a tiny seed of doubt into WD mind. Then every night she will wonder - can he be so perfect. By next week she will be convinced he has some major flaw.

classic use of the technique.
when you have as many wives (and ex-wives) as i do, you learn stuff, you know?
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#12875 - 04 Aug 06 09:31 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Quote:
Originally posted by Chocolatea:
Sexy Legs, !

you should show this mad cow your pics/yourdudes! i'm not fussy.. bikini clad ones, or even naked ones, will be viewed gladly..
no babe, not my nude model! your still underage!
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#12876 - 04 Aug 06 09:34 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Lol is that a compliment coming from the you?

me .. underage? HA!! yeah i was.. during the dutch occupation..

i'm an old soul inside

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#12877 - 04 Aug 06 09:35 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Selamat Pagi dari Paradise semua smile smile smile
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#12878 - 04 Aug 06 09:38 Re: What turns a girl on?
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selamat pagi to you Pak Bob, are you in bali already? hows the waves? what breakfast do you have now? arak again?? geez..!
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#12879 - 04 Aug 06 09:41 Re: What turns a girl on?
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pagi BB.. i like your signature!

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#12880 - 04 Aug 06 09:43 Re: What turns a girl on?
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makan malam time dulu ya...
sexy cow! write me..! i wanna try your hot milk!! *smoochez*
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#12881 - 04 Aug 06 09:44 Re: What turns a girl on?
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bon appetite long legs..
I'll make sure it's fresh milk wink *hugs*

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#12882 - 04 Aug 06 09:46 Re: What turns a girl on?
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Morning Gilrs ,.yup back in Paradise got here at 1 am,.....and sat and listened to the waves hitting the beach till about 3 am,.and savoured a glass or 3 of my fav. tipple.

High tides and big waves again always in Late July and August but it's hot and dry and , and Paradise,.....Gonna go up to see the fishermen soon and get some Lobster for lunch,..... laugh laugh laugh
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