'IF' you ever been in love......

Posted by: emmajkt

'IF' you ever been in love...... - 02 Mar 07 11:19

How do you express that feeling to your bf/gf/SO? What if you always fight because you have 'opposite attraction' Syndrome? lieuuuuur euuuy..
Posted by: TeDdYBeAr

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 02 Mar 07 11:22

what is attraction syndrome ?

Well sometimes actions speak louder than words. So I will show my love with my actions, and make sure that he see my love to him wink especially, I'm a person full with love
Posted by: dolphin

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 02 Mar 07 11:26

Too complicated for me Emma :P smile
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 02 Mar 07 11:31

opposite attraction 'syndrome', i call it syndrome when u attracted to person that is so different with you, maybe the age maybe the looks, or personality. its just very different.... Yep, its so complicated.. indeed....
Posted by: TeDdYBeAr

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 02 Mar 07 11:39

Well I like old man wink hahahahaha Is that can be call opposite attraction syndrome ?? wink
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 02 Mar 07 11:50

maybe if the girl 17 or 18 and the guy more than 50 ( EWWW..that could be phadophile..) nah, my bf is sooooo boring kind a type, wanna stay at home watching desperate housewive, i like socializing and go to party.. he's religious.. im not.. so.. *sigh* hard
Posted by: doremi

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 02 Mar 07 22:54

Love makes one does strange things...You've got nothing to worry emma if love drives to you to fight. Some loves drive the lovers to kill, this is scary and fatal.





Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 00:04

Quoting: nwgirl
Love makes one does strange things...You've got nothing to worry emma if love drives to you to fight. Some loves drive the lovers to kill, this is scary and fatal.







lol.. that's sounds scary. Fighting is exhausting enough thou...
Posted by: travel2happiness

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 00:07

I agree. Opposites can attract quite strongly. Most guys, my recent heartbreak included, that I find myself very much into have been in their late 30's or 40's and white, while I am neither. Maybe it just shows there is nothing better than an ageless relationship which does not adhere to societal boundaries.
Posted by: chewwyUK

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 00:21

general advice to the ladies with relationship problems .....

if you are not happy dump the guy and move on.

If you don't want to dump him then stop moaning and try a harder to please your man.
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 00:21

yep.. i'm pretty rebel myself. Indo women tend to drown in fairytale kind a love fantasy. At the end we find lots of trouble with the western culture, includes point of view and the expectation in the relationship
Posted by: jok

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 00:25

Quoting: chewwyUK
general advice to the ladies with relationship problems .....

if you are not happy dump the guy and move on.

If you don't want to dump him then stop moaning and try a harder to please your man.


That's the problem Cheewy..., the problem of the relationship because the guy always dump the girl.
Posted by: chewwyUK

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 00:46

not always ela --- there are some men out there who like a good relationship -- things can work out in the end (i hope hehe)
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 00:48

Quoting: chewwyUK
general advice to the ladies with relationship problems .....

if you are not happy dump the guy and move on.

If you don't want to dump him then stop moaning and try a harder to please your man.


Words are easy, to dump someone would be the loser way. Try harder? i'm trying harder than before. Sometimes you wouldn't know how it is until you into it, or become a woman..

share your story for inspiratin or stfu
Posted by: chewwyUK

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:09

how about this for an idea .. talk to your boyfriend about it
Posted by: jok

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:11

haha!
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:20

Quoting: chewwyUK
how about this for an idea .. talk to your boyfriend about it


well, don't you think i would trying to do that many times? i mean i done everything. And i think i love this guy, just everything so different ( except our love ) that's why we like coming from different planet.. Hey i'm not trying to moaning thou.. just wondering if people have that kind a experience and can share me some stories..
Posted by: jok

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:24

emma...., are you real in Jakarta?
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:28

[quote/] emma, i don't understand your english.
please explain to me with your very broken english.[quote/]

gee... do i have to tell u what exactly i am saying. Take it this way, why don't you put it word by words. And put it together like i am talking to you casually, cause i don't bother to use grammar. It such a pain in the ass. Cheers
Posted by: jok

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:29

your A$$?
i think i have deleted already.
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:30

nope i am brown betawi gal but live in Sydney
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:31

Quoting: Ela_K3000
your A$$?
i think i have deleted already.


Ela.. pain in the ass, means difficult, hard or annoying. My english is pretty good but i don't like to use perfect grammar darl
Posted by: jok

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:32

Emma, people in love is always fighting.
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:39

lol
Posted by: Just

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 01:42

Fighting is considered normal and healthy as long as you don't overdo it! You know what I mean... it's not healthy if you fight over the same thing over and over by almost every seconds!
Posted by: juminten

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 02:05

yes,...mama just! lol..
Posted by: Just

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 02:06

WD, go to your room! LOL
Posted by: juminten

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 02:13

Quoting: chewwyUK
general advice to the ladies with relationship problems .....
if you are not happy dump the guy and move on.
If you don't want to dump him then stop moaning and try a harder to please your man.

Mr.Cheww you are d'man!

good advice ladies! mr.cheww was right, dump your dude if he's pain the ass! i can't stand with a clingy, bitchy dude! dont want to have a heart attack too soon..

Posted by: Jokie Jokie Girl

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 02:27

me too..I like old man fat and ugly wink laugh grin
Posted by: Lulu

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 02:36

Quoting: Ela_K3000
Emma, people in love is always fighting.


I prefer to have fights on the bed!
Posted by: Just

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 02:37

with the bunny!


I mean... bunnies!!! grin
Posted by: jok

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 02:39

Quoting: Lulu
Quoting: Ela_K3000
Emma, people in love is always fighting.


I prefer to have fights on the bed!


Agree. I would like to be nasty in bed at times!
Posted by: Dilli

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 02:58

I am sure that you are telling the truth! Why restrict yourself to the bed, try other places...much more fun!
Posted by: travel2happiness

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 05:29

there is nothing like good make up sex, sometimes you gotta have a lil argument almost on purpose just to have make up sex
Posted by: Dilli

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 05:37

Thats why I always arrive home pissed, beat the crap out of my partner and demand a shag 1/2 an hour later!

Works every time!
Posted by: Jokie Jokie Girl

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 06:09

Quoting: emmajkt
maybe if the girl 17 or 18 and the guy more than 50 ( EWWW..that could be phadophile..) nah, my bf is sooooo boring kind a type, wanna stay at home watching desperate housewive, i like socializing and go to party.. he's religious.. im not.. so.. *sigh* hard


emma..good for you becuase you found a guy like him smile so no need to worry too much.. wink

I prefer stay at home watching TV's program it's better than go for hang out smile
Posted by: TeDdYBeAr

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 06:40

hahaha True JJG,

I pefer to have a guy who like to be at home ... so I can cuddle within him almost all the time wink When you have someone next to you, most of the time you wanna be alone with him, rather than going to pub or bar where can not have privacy smile
Posted by: Queenie

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 08:00

me too me too laugh
there's no privacity in bars too much noise and alot of ppl, at home we can be closer, cuddle.... its more romantic... hehehehe love
Posted by: dolphin

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 08:31

Hey Guys, i know Emma better than she know her self lol hehehe... lol JJG, TB n Queenie. I prefer to stay at home with my hubby smile But maybe sometime, we need go out also but not often. Emma, I think u doing better n better, keep smile n strong ya! Love u 4ever xoxo
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 22:00

Quoting: Queenie
me too me too laugh
there's no privacity in bars too much noise and alot of ppl, at home we can be closer, cuddle.... its more romantic... hehehehe love


i would like to stay at home rather than out somewhere in some clubs in jakarta ( you know how it is ) But Sydney is too nice just to sit at home, so many great club even the gay bar here is so great!
Posted by: Dilli

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 03 Mar 07 22:28

Know what you mean girls! Pub or home, hmm tough one!

A decision that is often made easier when confronted with this!
Posted by: emmajkt

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 04 Mar 07 00:04

how dare you take my bottom picture, when i didn't notice!
Posted by: dolphin

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 04 Mar 07 08:37

Sexy bum :P
Posted by: Queenie

Re: 'IF' you ever been in love...... - 07 Mar 07 14:42

Quoting: travel2happiness
there is nothing like good make up sex, sometimes you gotta have a lil argument almost on purpose just to have make up sex


The best part of the fights are the make up wink
In bed all problems are solved...