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#38999 - 20 Dec 06 06:52 Re: Malaysians are bastards! [Re: riccardo]
Capt. Mainwaring Offline
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Registered: 16 Aug 06
Posts: 3225
Loc: here
Quoting: riccardo
And the crucifixion is on.
Certainly, a line has been crossed -- You keep up your talking xsbir. Gonzo, if you know me why don't you have the balls to say any of that crud to my face?

You three newbie trolls (xs, gonzo, JH) would all do well to at least pretend to be literate and actually try to read MY posts about Islam. That would be better than looking at me through your own alcohol-addled filters -- which include previous issues that have caused you to hate me and/or your assumptions about the stupid country of my citizenship.




Talk about assumptions Riccardo - whilst I would do well to talk - you may find that it is your bullish and belligerent delivery of what may be valid points that encourages an instant dislike .
Please don't overestimate your own importance - I don't hate you - hate is reserved for matters of importance .

I think you also possess a pair of extremely selective filters - you certainly seem to neglect to answer points that get a little to close to the truth for comfort .

What is all this "troll" rubbish ?
You chopsed off and got called on some of your comments - nothing more .



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I also made a vegetarian version,with tempe and tofu chunks for myself and others.Get over it.
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#39000 - 20 Dec 06 06:56 Re: Malaysians are bastards! [Re: Polar Bear]
Capt. Mainwaring Offline
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Registered: 16 Aug 06
Posts: 3225
Loc: here
Quoting: Polar Bear
It is Christmas, and i am naked.

Lets all call it quits smile


I'll agree with that - kindly put some clothes on , you look like a refugee from "Village People" - I can almost hear a Chorus of YMCA
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I also made a vegetarian version,with tempe and tofu chunks for myself and others.Get over it.
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#39085 - 21 Dec 06 15:03 Re: Malaysians are bastards! [Re: Capt. Mainwaring]
Piss Salon Offline
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Registered: 27 Jun 06
Posts: 4039
Loc: Jakpus
Back to the original thread. I hate to say I told you so but ...:-)

Agreement exposes RI maids to abuse: UN

JAKARTA
An agreement intended to protect Indonesian maids in Malaysia actually opened the door to serious abuse by allowing employers to keep their passports, Jorge Bustamante, the UN special rapporteur on the human rights of migrants, said on Wednesday after a fact-finding trip here.
More than a million Indonesian migrant workers in the neighboring country face serious abuse from beatings and rape to forced labor -- the bulk of them women and children, as the memorandum of understanding between Indonesia and Malaysia signed earlier this year allows employers to take their maids' passports away from them, further stripping away their freedom.
Bustamante, wrapping up a week-long trip to Indonesia that included interviews with families at a Malaysia border crossing, also said women recruited as domestic workers were "virtually sold to their employers".
Paradoxically, the agreement, intended to express the two countries' concerns about the treatment of women migrants, actually exposed them to potential abuse through this provision, the Mexican professor said.
"A chain of vulnerability for migrants leads to very serious violations of human rights such as women being beaten and raped and migrants being whipped in prison," he was quoted by AP as saying.
Bustamante said he had heard the reports of abuse from Indonesian women who had returned home.
The abuses included extremely long hours of work, no days off, irregular payment and psychological, physical and sexual abuse.
"What I saw in the most dramatic situation is the vulnerability of women as subjects of human rights. This vulnerability is the result of a process that begins in Indonesia with the recruitment of the women in their communities and then lured by the agents to be taken to Malaysia where they are literally sold to employers," he said.
"The international community is not interested because there is true demand for irregular (illegal) migrants," said Bustamante, adding that half those going to Malaysia were domestic workers, but that a large number were plantations laborers.
The Indonesian government has claimed it would ratify a 1990 international convention protecting the rights of migrants in 2007, he added.
Malaysia depends heavily on foreign maids, with more than 300,000 from Indonesia, but they enjoy little protection under labor laws. The maids often live in and work all day every day to earn about US$100 a month.
As AFP reported, the special rapporteur said he would make recommendations to the Indonesian government and would present a report to the UN Human Rights Council in Geneva.
Bustamante said he realized that according to UN procedure in dealing with this problem, the UN had no right to force the Indonesian government to make changes directly.
He stated that the UN could only make recommendations to the Indonesian government while the decision to deal with the problem would entirely depend on the Indonesian government and the public.
He also urged the government to ratify the 1990 International Convention on the Protection of the Rights of All Migrant Workers and Members of their families given the misconceptions surrounding this convention.
“It's up to the Indonesian government and society to decide since we only have the power to give recommendations, not to impose it,” Bustamante said.
Indonesia, the world's fourth most populous nation with more than 220 million people, is still recovering from the 1997 Asian economic crisis and many people go abroad in search of a better life, especially women and children. Widespread corruption has not aided matters.
Jorge Bustamante was appointed Special Rapporteur in August 2005 and has come to the Indonesia for an official ten-day visit after a invitation from the Indonesian government.
During his visit, Bustamante has been discussing the issues with government officials, UN agencies, non-governmental agencies and other members of civil society, including the workers. (AFP/AP/HAF)
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#39086 - 21 Dec 06 20:42 Re: Malaysians are bastards! [Re: Piss Salon]
Polar Bear Offline
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
Silk Stalkings
Woman imprisoned for terrorizing ex-lovers and threatening their
girlfriends is now free
By R. SCOTT MOXLEY
Thursday, December 7, 2006

Though fate proved cruel in the end, who could blame Dr. Jon M.
Grazer's initial excitement at meeting a petite, well-educated
Malaysian woman at Newport Beach's Classic Tailoring in May 2003?
Grazer, a prominent Orange County plastic surgeon and bachelor, gave
Renee Taiyean Au his business card and telephone number. After Au
called, the two dined at upscale Fleming's and slept together.

At the time, Grazer had no way of knowing that, as a lover, Au—then 38
years old and an Orange County civil engineering expert—had trouble
accepting that no means no. In fact, according to police and court
records, Au's response to male rejection has been something akin to
the Big Bang: a combustible mix of outrage—cursing, spitting, pouting,
odd stunts, stalking—frightening violence and even threats of a
murderous rampage. Her gouging tool of choice: a screwdriver.

Signs of impending disaster arrived a month after Grazer dined with
Au. The doctor says Au showed up unannounced at his Fashion Island
surgery center and quizzed his employees about their identities and
jobs. Then, a few weeks later on a Saturday, Au grabbed Grazer's cell
phone while he was in the shower and called one of his ex-girlfriends,
Victoria Bahr.

"Jon doesn't want you to ever call him again," said Au, who also
erased Bahr's contact information from the doctor's cell phone. "I
will be running the office so stay away."

Bahr called Grazer's office manager and described the bizarre phone
call. The employee contacted the doctor. Later that night, when Au
wasn't in earshot, Grazer called Bahr and apologized.

The following morning, Au searched through the doctor's cell phone
calls and confronted him.

"We need to talk," she said. "You called that woman last night!"

"I don't need you to be investigating me like that," the doctor said.
The behavior caused Grazer, 47, to throw her out of his Newport Beach
residence. However, Au wasn't done with the relationship.

Cue the haunting, high-pitched music.

* * *

Villains in horror flicks often escape justice. Au hasn't been so
lucky. She alleged it was an elaborate conspiracy involving the
victims, Newport Beach police, a handwriting expert, prosecutors, a
judge and her own defense lawyer that landed her in the Central
California Women's Facility north of Fresno last year. More on what
put her in prison and how she continues to fight in a moment. Next:
Dr. Grazer wasn't Au's first victim.

A Costa Mesa city official, who asked not to be identified, briefly
dated Au in late 1999. After the man ended the relationship, she
harassed him at his home and office, according to court records. In
March 2000, Au paged him "30 or 40 times" when he was attending a
public function. His car was vandalized with maple syrup. Someone
spray-painted "whore" and "bitch" on a vehicle belonging to the man's
next girlfriend. Later, yet another girlfriend found this message
painted on her car: "End it now bitch." One witness claimed Au
admitted to the destruction because she was "angry" with her ex-boyfriend.

In 2001, a jury found Au not guilty of stalking. But she was convicted
of vandalism and sentenced to three years' probation and 40 hours of
community service. After the case, the city official even attended
counseling sessions with her.

* * *

By the time Au met Grazer in 2003, she was on probation and had
attended anger management classes. The lessons didn't stick. Just days
after Grazer dumped her, Au called his office and, according to court
records, told employees to "watch their backs." In a second call 30
minutes later, she said, "You're all dead." The staff called police
but nothing was done. Perhaps Grazer intervened. Despite all the
trouble, the doctor was not able to resist Au's charms. He would date
her twice more before ending the affair again in August.

It was a busy month for Au. She appeared at the home of Grazer's
sister "tearful, weepy, lost and pathetic," wearing a cape, hiding her
arms and hands, and seeking another "private meeting" with the doctor
for "closure." On at least four other occasions, the doctor attended
public functions with dates or visited a Starbucks near Fashion Island
and saw Au standing alone watching him. At Mosun in Laguna Beach,
Grazer called police because of Au's presence. And when the doctor
attended a dinner party on another night, she called his cell phone 21
times.

On Oct. 18, 2003, Grazer dined at Fleming's with friend Suzanne
Earnest. During dinner, Au called the doctor and demanded that they
meet for dinner at Fleming's. He hung up. She called his cell phone 15
more times and his home phone 31 times. A car belonging to Earnest was
vandalized at the doctor's residence. The next morning, Grazer left
his surgery center and found that someone had keyed and smeared dirt
and spittle on his Porsche.

In November, the doctor discovered his car scratched again, Au
watching him at a Hoag Hospital parking lot, and his property
scattered outside of his home. After receiving numerous hang-up phone
calls from a pay phone, Grazer filed a report with Newport Beach
police accusing Au of stalking.

The move wasn't a deterrent. Not only did the calls continue, but Au
left a message taped to the doctor's front door on Nov. 29. It read,
"Jon, I am now more receptive to listen to your apology."

* * *

A court ordered Au to stay at least 150 yards away from Grazer as well
as Ann Ciulla and her three young children until January 2015. Ciulla
had the misfortune of going on a blind date with Grazer on Dec. 26,
2003. They drank cocktails at Gulfstream and dined at Chat Noir. They
didn't know they were being tailed. A police investigation later
discovered that Au had rented a white Ford Focus that same day.

After the doctor took Ciulla to her home, he noticed a white Ford
Focus tailing him closely. Spooked, he drove to Newport Beach police
headquarters near Fashion Island. Au didn't fall for the trap, but her
night was far from over.

Ciulla, clueless about Au, woke the next morning to find her front
porch vandalized. At his own home, Grazer found his Hummer had been
keyed. This time someone had made huge horizontal scratches on the
driver's door.

On Dec. 30, Ciulla found that someone had used dirt and flowers to
construct a grave at her front door. The word "SLUT" was written on
her front door. Her garage door carried this handwritten message: "In
my opinion nicely paid call girl in neighborhood; Men, hold onto your
wallets; Ladies, hold onto your men; Compliments of the Jon, December 26."

Told of the vandalism, Grazer informed Ciulla that Au had been
stalking him.

On New Year's Eve, Ciulla left for vacation but was called by an
alarmed neighbor. Someone had used a screwdriver to gouge holes in her
home's doors and a black ink marker to write "CALL GIRL" on the garage
door. Red syrup that looked like blood had been poured on her patio.
Terrorized, Ciulla wouldn't go home. She took her kids and temporarily
relocated to a friend's house.

Au still wasn't finished.

Late at night on Jan. 3, 4 and 5, witnesses saw a white Ford Focus in
Ciulla's neighborhood and parked near Ciulla's empty residence. In the
following days, police detectives learned that Au had switched to a
leased red Mitsubishi. The cops informed Grazer. Later that night he
saw the car parked near his office. Police arrived and questioned Au,
who gave them two bogus stories to explain away her presence. Pressed,
she finally admitted she was there to spy on the doctor. Officers
found her carrying a screwdriver, a calendar containing detailed
information on Grazer's activities and notes containing the license
plate numbers for vehicles belonging to the doctor, his friends, his
family members and Ciulla.

* * *

Au didn't testify at her September 2004 trial. But according to court
records, she told people that she was the stalking victim, that an
unknown caller had lured her to Ciulla's neighborhood in a trap and
that the stories told by Grazer and his friends, family and employees
were lies. She said other men whom she'd dated would vouch for her
character. Au also wanted to know why Newport Beach cops never tested
the spit left on Grazer's car for DNA. This test would have proven her
innocence, she claimed.

Prosecutor Charles Ragland dismissed the spit argument as a red
herring and suggested someone had watched too many CSI episodes. He
said there was more than sufficient evidence to prove not just her
guilt but lack of remorse. An Orange County jury agreed. She was
convicted of two felony stalking counts.

After the verdicts, Ron Cordova—her own defense lawyer—told a county
probation officer that Au had "antisocial" tendencies, was "obviously
obsessed" with Grazer and needed to be incarcerated. Superior Court
Judge Richard Toohey sentenced her to a two-year prison term and
reduced Grazer's restitution demand from $59,000 in damages to $24,000
because of a lack of receipts.

From her Chowchilla, California, prison cell in July 2005, Au appealed
her convictions as fraudulent and the restraining orders as
unnecessary. She alleged misconduct by the prosecutor, the judge and
her own lawyer. "Some evidence which should have been presented was
not, and some that was presented should not have been," she wrote.

In mid-October 2006, a state court of appeal based in Santa Ana
rejected Au's motions. The justices said there was "overwhelming
evidence" of her guilt. However, the court did overturn Judge Toohey's
restitution order by claiming he'd never given Au a chance to
challenge the expenses. That matter remains unresolved.

But here's something for all single Southern California men to
contemplate: Au is now free. Prison officials released her eight
months into her two-year sentence. She returned to Orange County,
lives in her Rancho Santa Margarita condo and works in marketing.

No word yet on if she's back in the dating game.

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#39087 - 21 Dec 06 20:46 Re: Malaysians are bastards! [Re: Polar Bear]
Polar Bear Offline
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Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
Now SHE is a Malysian Bastard....... !!!!

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#39100 - 22 Dec 06 00:28 Re: Malaysians are bastards! [Re: Polar Bear]
riccardo Offline
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Registered: 12 Oct 05
Posts: 2195
Loc: Jakarta
She certainly has some issues, perhaps she's merely a really strong supporter of monogamous relationships. Even more sketchy is that she is free now. Eerie too, because I know all those places they talk about. It's where I grew up; used to go shopping at Fashion Island, have eaten at Chat Noir, have had run-ins with the Nazi NB cops etc, etc.
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#39101 - 22 Dec 06 00:42 Re: Malaysians are bastards! [Re: riccardo]
Polar Bear Offline
Pujangga Besar

Registered: 23 Nov 05
Posts: 6177
Quoting: riccardo
She certainly has some issues, perhaps she's merely a really strong supporter of monogamous relationships. Even more sketchy is that she is free now. Eerie too, because I know all those places they talk about. It's where I grew up; used to go shopping at Fashion Island, have eaten at Chat Noir, have had run-ins with the Nazi NB cops etc, etc.


LOLOLOLOLOL

kuku NEXT wife????

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#39107 - 22 Dec 06 00:57 Re: Malaysians are bastards! [Re: Polar Bear]
KuKuKaChu Moderator Offline
Pooh Bah

Registered: 09 Oct 05
Posts: 10790
Loc: Centre of the Universe
Quoting: Polar Bear
Quoting: riccardo
She certainly has some issues, perhaps she's merely a really strong supporter of monogamous relationships. Even more sketchy is that she is free now. Eerie too, because I know all those places they talk about. It's where I grew up; used to go shopping at Fashion Island, have eaten at Chat Noir, have had run-ins with the Nazi NB cops etc, etc.


LOLOLOLOLOL

kuku NEXT wife????


i'll sort her out in no time ...
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