buat nick "janda gatal", saya mau meralat apa yg dikatakan nick "faria" ttg klien-nya yg punya 5 isteri. itu tdk benar. saya tahu ttg "klien"nya itu. dia sdh bercerai dg isteri ke-2 serta membatalkan perkawinannya dg isteri ke-4. jadi isterinya yg skrg adl 3. entah dia mau nambah lg or tdk, kamu bisa tanyakan lsg pdnya. jika "ya", mk kamu bisa daftar skrg juga...

wah hebat juga orangnya! i wish i could be like him!! he could be my role model!! hahahahaaa!

sebenarnya punya istri lima atau sepuluh ga masalah, asal bisa adil and the most important, dia bisa ga share waktu ke yanga lainnya, jangan sampai ada yang mayoritas dan yang lainnya diminoritaskan.
honestly, ga ada perempuan yang mau dibagi citanya, even siapapun dia?
kalaupun ada, itu hanya untuk membahgiakan san suami, but aside that, she is hurt much

the 1st wife is in yogya, the others are in jkt (one of them in jkt is his home servant. he married his own home servant bcoz she has been pregnant w/ him). he comes to yk only once in a few months (maybe once in 6 months) bcoz he has 2 run his business in jl.jaksa-jkt.

guess what? i'm the ex 2nd wife! that's why i know abt him:) now i've been back 2 solo 2 work & live my life alone w/ my 3 yearsold daughter. i'm eager 2 4get abt the painful past of mine. would you mind prayi' 4 me rgrdngly, plz? I hope i'll b able 2 get my true happiness b4 getting older & die in time. even if it's just 4 a moment. yes, indeed!

HELLO.. any stamp-collector there?

hi man, preman, gigolo, kachung etc...if you a real human, you will not hurt woman with poligamy...bcs that is kampungan sekali...rite girls ???

i will pray for chelsea, i hope you will find a good man and he can make you happy forever...

trust to GOD that HE will always loves you forever...

huh.....for chelsea, I see, what you feel, I'm women, even I never felt before (Insaya Allah), but I understood..is he hurt you much?

sometimes an indonesian women always be pinned under man, a man have a power do everything, make affair with the others girls, merriage than once, etc.

but, have you ever tought, when you get merriage with him for the 2nd wife? you love him much or you just needed him for partener in life?

yups, I just wanna tell you, that sometimes a women doing stupid thing because of a man or love? and you know, why does a women doing stupid thing cause of that?

yeah, I'm a women and sometimes I did something stupid also.

whatever, he hurt you, right? because he lieved you and he marriage with other women and he marriege with his own home servant.

and now you live alone? why you didn't try to be his wife always? and try to be nice wifes with the others

poligamy is not kampungan sekali....it's will be happened to any body, whoever!

so, don't ever said that poligamy is kampungan!
if you're a women with merriege, keep trying to be nice wife and give him the best of you...

if you still fear with a man who will be poligamy, keep survive with single and don't ever legally bound in merriage.....

Hi Mod,

i think you agree with poligamy, rite ?

btw, if you already married for 3-4 years and your husband decide to marry again with your servant ....then...what will you do ???

anyway, your husband give you 2 options "you agree or you go out from his house"

if you are a woman i think you will agree that poligamy is kampungan and amoral.

CAN YOU IMAGINE ??? your husband make love with your servant and in another day he make love with you...????

I dont care too much abot poligamy, but honestly I dont think too much about the legally bound in merriege that's the point...

yeah sure, I can imagine dear! what a hard for us to share husband with the others moreever with servant,
but don't ever change, stay cool and lovely everything is gonna be ok..believe!!!!!

if you dont care to much ...its okay
but if your husband force you to accept other woman in your husband's life...then what will you do ??? you dont care too ???

honestly, it's so hard, no women want to share her husband to any women...

so that's way I don't care too much about the legally bound in marriege.

accep other women in our hasband life itu a hard choice.

yeah, to be a women especially a wife of a man who like poligamy is a hard, and sometimes we did'nt have any choise, wich one we'll take, leave him or keep staying with him...

it's just a words from young girl who never get merrieage before " if you love him much, do it from a heart a full of love, don't ever think with the others, think that's he's only yours!

I believe that you're nice and smart wife, so you can do anything by your self....

cheersss

You should always remember that all men are basically animals.

If you remember this, you will never have problems with the male of the species!

really, it's mean that's you one of them!

hi all...... what news ? may I joint ?

sure you can join; as long as you're sexy! nice photo you have there! hahaha!

How's life in Borneo? do you do any headhunting?

oooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh

plz stop the topic of any marriage/polygami. any topic else more interesting?

sure, we have many topic, what topic you like best? education, entertain, just mantion....this's free form and every body can talk here....

Hi, I marry bule too. I live in Sydney - Australia

I married Indonesian ... I live in Jakarta! hahaha! do you like living in Australia? Is living in Australia what you expected?

Hi Lina. Want a date? How do I contact you in Jakarta? email me at stevehull46@yahoo.com

Hi Angel.

I guess you are too angry to read Lina's posting and get what is she trying to say, perhaps coz she is also in a bad mood already, hehehe.

Poligamy is not about kampungan or kotaan , cool or not, but its about human's beheavior i believe, its a bout culture and social value of a community.

In time, its an honor to have more than one wife in some areas/some country or nations or at least district, and for the women its also an honor as the value life not in owning a man but rather in their position in the social community i.e. a wife of an honorable man, among other wives.

Lets try to see this poligamy things as it is, and in this twenty first century, the value of life had change a lot or in general, poligamy is a not a famous way of living and also not many (read: none of) the women in these days see that having a competitor in a house is not an option none will see that being the first wife in a rich or royal family is a good option (even some king only have one wife). And also please dont forget about the feminism act that already there in this world hehehehe.

The world is more and more full of women who are adopting the feminism way, you can observe that way of thingking in the internet and there are some writers and novelist like Ayu Utami who is also among the list of these kind of people.

So, lets see things as it is, rather than judging and sending sarcastics words my dear ladies, as you are all have brain and a social status to maintain.

Feminism ladies, no worries i am not an enemy, i am supporting you all , hehehehe, just dont kill me in bed.....

Cheers all,

ivan ds

We Chinese have a saying, "what cat doesn't like fish?" So get it girls, it is a fact of life that your man will stray, and how many time have I seen women acting like sluts just to catch the man (preferably bule) and then fight like cats and dogs to keep other sluts off her prize...

It does not make sense, behaving like sluts just to get their man, then get real upset when another woman acts slutty towards her prize.

Therefore, it is useless to argue, just accept that its a fact of life that men are by nature polygamous....the more the better, if he can afford it.